How to choose the right man

The life of a modern woman consists of finding a partner in life and choosing a man. How to choose the right man? Each woman wants to have a strong and intelligent man next to whom one can rely on and can unconditionally entrust all worldly concerns. But at the same time, most women from an early age develop a strong character, which gives the craving for independence and the desire to command. This gives women a reason to declare their unwillingness to obey someone, despite the fact that many such business ladies cry at night in a pillow and are genuinely envious of themselves not so successful but happy in the marriage of friends.

In Western countries, this is called a beautiful word feminism, but all these qualities come down to the famous folk saying about the versatility of female nature, that a woman can be a man at the same time. More and more often, most women occupy leading positions in large companies, master masculine professions, trying to prove their independence. All these actions of women awaken the inclination of modern society to matriarchy and educate the characters of modern men, giving rise to infantilism and the inability to think independently.

Often, when looking for a life partner, a woman does not look for complicated ways, but simply chooses the most suitable man for her so that she does not have to change her habits and worldview, listen to the notation about the duties of this woman and just to be comfortable and boring. Therefore, on the path of modern women more and more often come across infantile men. At first glance it is difficult to determine the presence of infantile character in a man - quite often such men look rather manly from the first (and from the second!) Look, in the manner of conversation and basic preferences, infantile men are typical representatives of the stronger sex. The only fact that can immediately alert - this is excessive grooming, as many infantils are metrosexuals. All the life of such men goes in inimitable worship to themselves, loved ones, satisfaction of their needs and fear of any responsibility. When talking about serious relationships such a man can make a puzzled person or just run away, citing urgent matters. After that, he will bypass his former tenth road and complain to friends that they did not have time to start a relationship, and from him they are demanding something.

Is it possible to have a harmonious union with an infantile man?

Infantile men do not see the point in a serious relationship and marriage, because they believe that youth and youth will last forever, there will always be a girl who will brighten up loneliness by her presence, and marry such a young man - this will forever ruin your life, drop into oblivion.

But if a woman decides to compete for her irresolute, but beloved man, then all possible methods come into play - an attempt to find common interests, a money or career question, the usual tricks of a "weak woman". In most cases, a man begins to see in a woman or an ideal friend, or even weaker than he, a being, and begins to slowly change his worldview and behavior. But in the event that all the women's tricks have worked, and the loved one does not want to make concessions, it is better to retreat in silence and leave. Such actions will force the man to think about whether he needed this woman, about his own life, behavior and other clever things. Awareness of the loss of a loved one will force anyone to engage in self-exploration and analysis of their behavior and life goals. After all, we are aware of the value of relationships only when they themselves are destroyed by their words and behavior, and the desire to return a loved one gives strength and can serve as an incentive to change yourself.