Why do men love some, and marry others?

According to statistics, 10 marriages out of 100 are based on great love. Let's try to understand why men love some, and marry others.

1. Men set a goal to marry a beautiful and intelligent woman. When a man begins to choose his future wife, he begins to determine for himself a number of criteria. According to these criteria, the future spouse must fully correspond as a wife and as a mother. It often happens that men love one girl, but do not see in her the image of an ideal wife, since she does not know how to cook at all or does not like to wipe the dust every day.

And here at this moment, they begin to think how it would be nice to marry Kate Simonina, because she knows how to cook, she can take care of mother's flowers, and they can also love on the side, as they think. Very many parents themselves tell their children that they love one, but live with another person and for them it is considered normal. In this way they tell their children that there is nothing wrong with this.

2. Men very often seek their ideal. And as proven by science, there are no ideal people in principle, but they do not stop them. It happens that a man does not find his ideal. And it happens, and vice versa, he meets, but later disappointed and makes rash acts.

3. It happens and this is when men get married according to the calculation. After all, men are in great need of confidence in the future. After all, not every man can resist the situation in society, career growth, power, fame, all this is attached to his wife. Many create marriages and for the sake of calculation are ready to marry even the old terrible wife.

4. It also happens that men think that married people live the longest. Any average man dreams of a family. Some people only dream about this happiness, because in our youth we dream, and in adulthood we start looking for our ideal and carefully looking to not make mistakes. And in the end, there is nothing we can not decide. And we begin to notice that everything has long since formed its own family nest, but you do not have it. And then there are relatives who say that you need to get married. And here the man clings to the word and must marry without any love.

There are so many reasons why men marry others. But mostly such marriages are doomed to failure. After all, family relationships completely lack understanding, mutual respect and, most importantly, feelings.