It is possible that at first you will feel a sense of panic, anxiety, confusion. Especially if this is your first experience. Do not be afraid. He will not be bored when you go to work or decide to meet with a girlfriend, go to your mom or visit a beauty salon. He eats the same as you, only twice in two more and everything should be richly greased with mayonnaise. But to educate and train a new resident of your home is worth, otherwise, you risk losing your dominance in the house, and your own apartment will be for you a stranger.
In the education of a man there are many subtleties, the main of which is to do it so that your chosen one never in his life has suspected that he is being trained. The rest is a matter of technology, each of you will surely cope!
At first, when a man has moved to you, it is worth giving him enough attention and care to make him feel that he is at home, that he is comfortable here, that he is always welcome, he is always welcome. Have allocated to it shelves in a case, a place for its books, disks, a place in a bathroom for its personal accessories. Show him that he is now the full owner of this apartment, just like you. Spoil his delicious dinner, speak more tenderness, do not make scandals and showdowns, a man can get scared and run away. The main thing is, at first to let the prince of your dreams understand that you respect his personal space, he has his own comfortable and well-equipped place for reading, for working at a computer, for watching TV. Allow me to bring friends, with the condition that your man will clean up everything and lead the apartment to its original appearance before the advent of his amusing or not very friends.
However, you should immediately discuss those moments that you would like to avoid. For example, you do not like when smoking in a room and in the kitchen, let your loved one go out onto a balcony or staircase, or even throw this addiction. If you do not like the way he squeezes out a paste from a tube or a gel from a bottle for a shower gel, get two copies. One is yours, the other for him. So you can avoid conflicts and irritations in the morning when you see an unclosed tube of paste. Teach a man to put dirty laundry in a laundry basket, which is in the bathroom. You do not have to search all over the apartment for his socks, pants and dirty T-shirts. Agree that if he is sitting on the couch, he will take away the crumbs, beer cans and empty bundles from under the chips. Listen carefully and his demands on how you live. Frank and direct conversation at the very beginning of a life together will avoid many problems in the future, misunderstandings and scandals.
If your man is going to bring his friends or acquaintances to your apartment, agree with him that he will notify you so that you do not get a silly or funny situation when you return home and put your foot in the doorway in order to seduce your lover , and at this moment on the other side of the door on your bare ankle are watching several pairs of stunned male eyes. Envy from friends to your man, of course, is assured, but not the fact that he will like that his woman is looked at by others, especially, to her provoked. Men are by nature very jealous and do not tolerate flirting with other men, and especially with their friends.
If you have good relations with neighbors or in the courtyard a certain company has formed, the "dog-breeders" with whom you meet every night and walk with your pet, be sure to introduce a man with your acquaintances in the house and on hobby for dog breeding. Firstly, a man will be pleased to realize that you are proud of him and acquaint him with all your friends. Secondly, walking with a pet alone is boring, your loved one will be more pleasant to do it in the company of people already familiar to him. The only thing, think carefully before introducing your loved one to everyone. Remember, can someone annoy you and tell you some "piquant story" from your past, which definitely will not please your chosen one.