"Kama Sutra", "Bible of sex" and many other books on the same topic reveal to us all the secrets of human pleasure, which occupy not the last place in the life of anyone. In this case, not always the role is given to things that are highly recommended to be avoided.
Does this mean that it makes no sense to study "Kama Sutra for the uninitiated" and "101 ways to drive him crazy"? Quite the contrary - they write sensitive things and their role should not be underestimated. But, comprehending such a complex and delightful science of love, do not forget about some trifles, which can thoroughly spoil the whole effect. And this is not trivial. So, your tablets "can not" in bed:
1. To laugh. Firstly, for a long time it is known: you can not laugh, looking at the subject of the male pride of your beloved. Even if you laugh with joy and pride. Secondly, you can not laugh out of place, that is, on an equal place. Even if at that moment a foolish situation occurred since the days of primary school. In both cases, he can be offended, and to prove that you were not laughing at him (his abilities, his figure, his actions, etc.), it will be almost impossible. By the way, equally laughter during sex can offend a woman.
2. To admit, how many at you was sexual partners. It is better not to raise this topic at all. If he insists, then the most sparing answer is "one" (if it looks like the truth) or "a few" (if there were 10 or more). A man, as a rule, is ready to believe what you say. In case he rests, demands and assures that he is just interested in - honestly telling and indicating the exact number can not be. For his own good. Even the most progressive young people like to be the first. If he never scolds you straight, then he will remember forever, you can not doubt.
3. It is bad to talk about previous fans , especially about their sexual abilities, even if you want to emphasize the perfection of your current partner. This is fraught with two bad thoughts from him: "If we part, it will be just as easy to discuss me" and "Or maybe something was wrong with it, since it came across such freaks." Both that, and another - a stone in your kitchen garden. And to praise it better like this: "I have not felt so good with anyone yet."
4. To mention the former. Some men are hurt by even an innocent remark like "Yesterday I saw Sergei with my son - such a pretty kid!" He may take offense even if you remind him of some episode from the past connected with another man.
5. Be honest in everything. Often women (like, however, men) want to know everything about their half: from his feelings with the previous partner to the stories of their relationship with all the details. Sexual intimacy and emotional attachment seem to be a protection that will allow listening to any intimate confidences calmly and with interest: "We love each other so much, and nothing can stop us!" The natural consequence of such "harmless" frankness is resentment and jealousy towards Do not ask any questions yourself and stop his conversations on this topic.
6. Try to pretend to be a sex goddess. Without a thorough "possession of the subject" it looks unnatural and therefore not exciting. By the way, the men themselves admit that even an experienced woman does not always get to high ground in bed for the first time with her beloved, and an attempt to copy an actress from porn is instantly guessed and, of course, does not play in our favor. The conclusion is clear: do not do what you are not yet familiar and unfamiliar, and apply the subtitled "seasonings" carefully, ready to stop, if you feel that he does not like. As it turns out, there are men who do not like oral sex, a caress of the earlobe or nipple, an unusual pose. You can not be a wonderful lover or a wonderful lover - you can be a good couple. Build your sexual behavior, focusing on your own man, and expect the same from him.
7. To bring to bed toys from a sex shop, without previously discussing the issue with a partner. Even if to you they seem fucking classy, and in the store the salesman, winking, assured that your friend would lose his head. It is possible that a man will find you unsatisfied with your sex "without gadgets" and earn yourself an inferiority complex. And you will suffer from this. The same applies to erotic literature, and video. Men are not at all so primitive as to be automatically led to frank pictures. In this issue, as in others, a special approach to his personal "points" on this topic is also needed. Just raise the question in advance.
8. To cause pain. Even if he mleth from the sight of your long nails - although, most likely, they admire your friends, not your man - do not rush to scratch his back in a fit of passion. What looks insanely sexy in a movie, in life - it just hurts, so hold yourself tight. It is proved that orgasm dulls unpleasant sensations. But after a successful final, he will have a hard time. The rule "do no harm" concerns your other actions during sex: men react very painfully if you are not careful with his "treasure".
9. To be silent. One of the most unforgivable female "sins", from a male point of view. If he can not bring you to scream, then to groan - for sure. So just give vent to your emotions. It will strengthen your own feelings, and give him new strength. Crying and moaning - the main tool of the priestesses of love of all times and peoples: it is the stormy, even wild female reaction in bed that makes a man believe that he is a th-th! While the lack of this belief, he will surely blame you. Secretly or explicitly. So do not be shy of your passion - there is no man who does not care.
10. It's bad to smell. Men acutely feel all the smells of a woman's body - from breathing and ending with know what. Moreover, it is so acute that one can at once lose all desire. Conclusion: long live the soap fragrant and towel fluffy. You also need to be careful with perfume. If in the dark of the night he asks: "How did you scent it?" - Do not be in a hurry to take this for a compliment, even the most expensive and your favorite spirits may not like it - do not like it at this moment, because he wants to feel your natural smell. Therefore, the best solution is to smell like drops of water from the shower, as well as that elusive mixture of aromas that consists of your shampoo, makeup, body cream. "What a fragrant you are!" He purred, and this is a real compliment.
And do not be afraid to try and experiment, but within a reasonable framework. And do not forget the taboos listed so that only your compliments are addressed to you and not just in words.