If your guy is untidy, this is most likely expressed in crumpled clothes, leaky socks, worn jeans and worn jackets. When asked why he can not tidy himself up, such a guy often responds that it looks normal. Many girls who think about how to overcome what a beloved guy is untidy think that young people simply mock. In fact, this is not so. We, of course, find it difficult to realize that a loved one can say such a thing seriously. That's just the way it really is. Therefore, in order to fight such a worldview, it is necessary to understand why your man thinks so.
Often, in a company of well-groomed and neat young people, you will almost never find someone who has not changed socks for at least a week. Accordingly, we can say with confidence that the guys are affected by their surroundings. In some companies, men laugh at friends who smoothen t-shirts and try to keep a little style. Unfortunately, guys do not understand how silly they behave and how funny they look from the outside. They are completely confident that if they watch themselves, they will cease to be real men.
In addition, some guys really do not care what they put on and what it's like. Such young people lack a sense of style completely, and they simply do not understand why to choose something, because each shirt has two sleeves, and jeans have two legs. So why pay more and spend extra time if you can put on the first one and go to it in the university, club or on a business meeting.
These guys can not prove that they look stupid if you use arguments such as: "It's absolutely not fashionable right now." "Your jacket just does not fit jeans", "They do not go to the restaurant, wearing shorts and a Hawaiian shirt". Often, after listening to such things, the guys waving their hand at us and saying that we give too much attention to rags.
Therefore, an untidy man needs to act by other methods. First, like any guy, he considers himself to be the most beautiful and sexy. But, in addition, he wants to be even better. Therefore, if, for example, he sees another man and notices that he is also popular with girls, in case that guy is well dressed, as if by accident: he's just in a stylish jacket (jeans, shirt). Itself nothing special, but the clothes emphasizes all of its virtues and exaggerates them. Also, when you go to the shops, from time to time show the guy clothes that, in your opinion, will look good on him and note that in this suit he would be simply irresistible. And also, if possible, make a gift to the guy. He will carry the gifts given to you to be pleased, and thus his appearance will improve significantly.
Of course, the lack of style, this is not such a terrible problem in comparison with slovenliness. Even if the guy is dressed tasteless, but the clothes are clean and ironed, it does not look as bad as mashed, crumpled branded things. That's why you should teach a young man to look after his wardrobe. If you live together, you iron and wash, and he transforms clothes into rags in one day, talk to him about how he should appreciate your work. If a young man says that he does not ask you about it, explain that you do not want people to think of you as a terrible hostess. Tell me that you yourself want to see him clean and tidy, and when behind your backs they whisper that you do not follow the appearance of a loved one, it becomes very unpleasant for you, because it's not true. In extreme cases, just explain to the guy that it is very important for you that he looks like a needle. After all, in fact, for him it is not difficult at all and does not infringe the rights. So why not just watch yourself.
Also it is necessary to talk to him about etiquette in clothes. If your young man considers himself intelligent and intelligent, this is exactly the lever to which you can press. Remind him that it is through clothing that we express our own world. Therefore, looking at his torn socks and shirt in spots, the interlocutors see not a talented programmer, but an untidy PTU-shnik who simply can not dress properly. By the way, if your man does not dress well, do not do the same with yourself to show him how ugly it is. Of course, in some cases this works. But, basically, the guys do not even notice that something is wrong with you. But you will feel extremely uncomfortable and uncomfortable under the sights of passers-by, friends and acquaintances.
Therefore, if your guy is untidy, just try to convince him that he will look better in clean and stylish clothes, other men will envy him. In addition, you will be proud of him even more. And never say that you are very ashamed of the appearance of your young man. For many guys, this is a terrible offense. They do not understand that you are ashamed of his clothes, not of his appearance and personality. This misunderstanding leads to serious conflicts. So act wisely and unobtrusively, then you will succeed.