For sure, every woman on her way came across tedious peasants. Despite the fact that their appearance can be different: sparkling, thoughtful, temperamental, reckless, - tediousness is often manifested in the representatives of the stronger sex. So where does it come from? Passed by inheritance as a hair color or shape of the nose, appears with age or develops because of the pressure of external circumstances?
Psychologists divide male bores into several categories, which depend on the psychoemotional state and behavioral features.
The first category of man-bore is male introverts. They can be said to be carried away by their own world. Such tediousness is very difficult to bear, because it sometimes frightens, and causes sincere emasculation. When communicating, such men quickly spend their energy, and emotions are replaced by feelings of anxiety, especially when there is a loud, cheerful and energetic girl next to them. Because of this, they are simply forced from time to time to withdraw into themselves, to abandon the surrounding reality. This does not mean that the partner neglects you, how you mistakenly think, quite the contrary, he completely trusts you and hopes that you understand him, but in another way he can not express it.
The second category of broom that can be encountered is men of a rigid-aggressive type. They are active, energetic, enterprising and temtemperament, constantly putting everything on the shelves in a certain order. When this type of men is self-centered, stubborn, so whatever it costs, they constantly go to the end and achieve their goals. A man can not understand himself, he can not cope with his thoughts and passions, so he tries to restore order to his real and surrounding life.
Men of a rigid-aggressive type constantly teach a woman and accuse her of carelessness, while they think that a woman's annotation is only for good and for good. It is best to communicate with such men with the help of full consent. This is the situation where it is better to agree than to explain why one does not want to do this.
Despite such a huge lack of tediousness, these men are very purposeful and quickly move along the career ladder, change their posts, swiftly moving to the highest, and achieve what they have conceived. Therefore, let him be bored, restful and confident with such a man, you will be like a stone wall.
The third category includes boring pessimists . In any situation, such men are unhappy and always complaining about various problems of incidents that can occur not only with them, but with all the rest. Such tediousness is based on enduring anxiety. These bores always tell other people how everything is bad and every day will get worse, and they themselves hope that they will be reassured and disillusioned. This type of personality is called constitutional-depressive, so the most important thing is when you communicate with such men, do not become infected with gloomy views on life and eternal whining. You know that no reasonable reason is capable of changing their attitude towards the actual reality, but do not forget that the predictions and anxieties of the man-nerds do not mean anything, they are, as a rule, based on subjective sensations. Any woman in a relationship with such a man feels herself to be unprotected. However, in such men, dullness and dignity. They are unlikely to ever change you and leave your family. They are just beginning to think about treason and are already imagining how the troubles, illnesses and scandals follow, and so all thoughts of "left" campaigns fall immediately.
In general, there are a lot of bores and psychologists have identified a generalized image of such a man with the most common and characteristic features.
- They can not distinguish secondary from the main, that is, they constantly carp on trifles.
- They are deprived of a sense of humor, because one anecdote can cause not laughter or even a smile, but only philosophical reasoning, which, as a rule, ends rather gloomily.
- Their behavior is inappropriate, it can happen at a time, for example, when people lead an easy, easy-going, cheerful conversation, while he will sit and insert his five cents, that everything is bad or that they are incorrectly expressed somewhere.
Even if your chosen one was a man-bore, do not focus on his tediousness, and moreover, try not to yield to his influence. Just take it as an unpleasant lack of a man. However, in any case, you can agree with them just to keep silent, but at the same time do it anyway in your own way. For this, a woman has wisdom, which is well seasoned with cunning.