Men are very rarely inclined to engage in oral sex with women. The explanation that an appropriate situation is necessary, of course, is justified. But even if everything has a caress, for some reason nothing happens. How to push them to this pleasant feat? We are looking for answers to this painstaking question ...
Men's concepts
No matter how sad it may sound, but in the world can still be found, the so-called, male dinosaurs, who consider it humiliating to give oral pleasure to a beloved girl. Also in this group, Freud's followers, who with great enthusiasm love to quote a famous scientist, are also fittingly included. They tirelessly repeat to their chosen women that the guru of sexology bequeathed to "normal" women to be satisfied with the phallus. And "perverts" who do not want to confine themselves to small ones are young or lesbian lesbians.
Council. The only thing you can advise the fair sex, who "was lucky" to twist the novel with such an "individual" - to run away from him as quickly as possible and where far away. And the point here is not only in one only the lack of oral sex. In other words, if a man is selfish in bed, he is self-centered and selfish in life. And here nothing can be changed. "Male" concepts are outweighed over all life. But a real woman does not have to take care of the satisfaction of her sexual and social mediocrities.
Disgust
Some representatives of the stronger sex tend to argue their refusal by the fact that for them, the cunnilingus is compared with a kiss with the mustachioed Clark Gabe.
Council . So what's the difficulty ?! Maybe you just need to make a bikini design or wax epilation ...
Inexperience
Let's try together to remember why you did not have oral sex with your very first love? And with the second? Do you have a low-level considerations or were you prevented by an innate disgust and so you could give the guy of your dreams a real and incomparable ecstasy? Let's talk frankly: you simply did not know how to do it. By irony, men are also not born with the natural ability to make cunnilingus. Now think how difficult it is for them to admit this? That's why they are trying to evade the "business", inventing all kinds of absurd excuses even at times, even calling themselves chauvinists, just to make neobreste status of unskillful lovers.
Council . In case you got an inexperienced guy, do not panic and despair. Opportunities open up excellent opportunities to teach him exactly "for himself." By the way, admit it in secret, that you are not an expert of oral technique yourself. Ask him to show how he likes it. After that you can hint at something that is not against receiving reciprocal courtesy. That's just not worth talking about, like: "Now I'll tell you everything in detail and bring it up to date!". It is very important to use the tactic of encouragement in the process of training instead of the tactic of blaming. It is worth remembering about the correctness, because the sexual future of this guy now depends only on you. You can make out of him not only an incomparable lover, but also a notorious misogynist.
The right attitude
There are also men who are ready for the oral sex, for example, if the favorite football team won the match victory. Principle they are always ready for oral sex, but only they need a stimulus for this. If he has a desire to make cunnilingus after you appear before him in an erotic order, half the trouble. It is done. But when he is inspired exclusively by the victories of the national football team ... It's very sad! Do not agree with the athletes.
Council . Try to add mood, using the pose "69". When caresses begin in this position, it becomes difficult for a man to argue.
Negative experience
A curious fact is that men often look at the right, but they can not stand anything out of what they see. Into their soul for a long time zapadayetoralny sex, sex with two blondes or a collar on the neck of a partner. Why-topo view no one rushes to please his beloved oral caresses. "Cunnilingus is ugly, vulgar and vulgar," some cavaliers say, "somehow a porn scene, so there the man nearly devoured his partner!".
Council . If the guy is inclined to adhere to such aesthetic views, offer him for a viewing not cruel porn, but erotica, where these scenes are shown very gently and at the same time beautifully. Excellent "helpers" can be cream or jam. Such a sexual game can distract from dirty images. Gradually introduce true arguments into the consciousness of your chevalier!
A respectful reason
Some men tend to believe that oral sex is necessary to deal with only the one that will be with you for life. So they show all their seriousness of the relationship and do not consider it necessary to give oral petting before marriage.
Council . As if there was a tamnya, but there is some truth in this. After all, women are also not going to satisfy everyone. That's why you need to show respect for the male "no". It is better to just wait for the man to be ready to confess to you all his serious intentions and feelings with the help of a peculiar language of love!
Instead of the final conclusion
It is quite possible that your cavalier is not comparable to any of the above situations. But it is still possible to defeat the "language barrier". Try the following:
Frank conversation can decide to put everything in its place . Sometimes it's much easier to talk than to guess whether he is squeamish or not? Excuses of the plan "this is a very intimate conversation" should not be taken into consideration. Otherwise, how are you going to do this?
Do not rush events . Women in fact also often feel unprepared for any experiments in terms of sex. Your relationship started not so long ago? Just give it a while. If he has something more to you for his passion, he will certainly reward your patience with a pleasant surprise.
It is not necessary to throw himself at his knight, demanding cunnilingus from him. Especially if he recently came home from a party or a gathering with his friends. In this moment, with all his will, he is not able to make intensive deviations with his head! And anyway, at any time, it's best that everything happens on his initiative. Your main task - just skillfully and quite correctly to hint to your partner about your desires.
Always remain a wise woman ! It is desirable that the faithful got used to the idea that for every session of cunnilingus he is expected something "tasty and spicy" in the form of encouragement from you. And it does not really matter what it will be: unsurpassed words of admiration, reciprocal oral caresses or passionate sex. The main thing is that he should know that his efforts will not be in vain. Well, and you, in turn, should always remember that you deserve it!