According to statistics, about 65% of the fairer sexes would like to have more cunnilingus in their intimate life. But how to say about this man, so as not to scare him off? Why in general can it frighten or offend a man? This will be discussed below.
The overwhelming majority of women agree with the statement that cunnilingus is one of the most fascinating sexual caresses. Most men admit that this is their favorite way of delivering pleasure to their partners. But not all men think so. Rather, they do not always know exactly how to deliver this pleasure specifically to you. Although in principle they have nothing against oral sex. So, how can you let him know that you want such caresses?
1. Whisper
Telling men directly about what you want cunnilingus - not the best solution. This at-first-instance, at first glance, request can cause your sexual partner to have a serious sense of inferiority. He may seem that he is not enough for you in bed. True, and some transparent hints, too, may not be enough. It's better to do this: when the man hugs you, presses all over the body, showing complete readiness for the sexual act, whisper to him: "You're so sexy, I really want you. But I'll get even more involved if you first kiss me downstairs. " So you will let know that all his previous actions satisfied you, but there is still an unfulfilled desire that you want to fulfill with him.
2. Make an intimate haircut
Men are known to love eyes. Beautiful and inviting intimate haircut or full removal from the intimate hair zone (also very excitingly acts on men) can potrezhech in it the desire to caress you between your legs. Specialists highly recommend full depilation. Completely devoid of hairline female pubic always causes a young man an irresistible desire to explore it with his mouth.
3. I argue with him
All men are naturally prone to competition. Why do not you use this for your intimate purposes? During the hottest hugs, whisper quietly: "I bet you will not bring me to orgasm just with your mouth?" A real man immediately rushes to show you the opposite.
Let the man win this argument. Then the next time he takes the initiative, he will shower your intimate zone with kisses. It is extremely important for a man to see that he forces you in sex. So give him such a pleasure, delivering at the same no less pleasure and myself.
4.Use the language of your body
Perhaps a man deprives oral attention of your intimate zone, because he simply does not know what and how "there" it is necessary to do. A number of non-verbal signs or movements at a time when his head is approaching your hips will serve as a guide for him. As soon as he begins to kiss the stomach, bend so that the pubis slightly close to the man's face, then with a gentle movement of the hand, push his head lower. Another univalent sign is a gesture with two fingers, in the form of the letter V near the clitoris. So the man is clear where to direct his tongue.
5. Votes
Obliging your man, what actions lead you into ecstasy. Repeat to him how wonderfully his tongue caresses you. This will inflame his passion and raise his self-esteem. "Yes, yes, that's it!" - such a phrase in a passionate tone is the best positive stimulant. Hearing this, your partner will express a desire to indulge you orally not only today, but also on other days.
6. Try poses that are comfortable for your partner
Take the two pillows, put one under his chest, and place the second under your buttocks. So his jaw will not crawl around the bed without end, and a slightly raised tazpredostavit more room for maneuver. Also, a man can lie down comfortably on his back, and you sit on him, so that your pubis is just above his lips. Do not be afraid to be seen as shameless in his eyes. In this position, you can easily set and smoothly control the rhythm.
7. If it is not ready
Sometimes the only way to change somehow the selfish approach of your man is to deprive the oral sex of himself. In the case, if this does not help you, then you will have to accept the fact that your man is among the small percentage of ardent opponents of oral sex. If you decide for yourself that you do not want to continue a relationship with a man unwilling to give you pleasure, then say goodbye to him. It will not be difficult to find one of the millions of men for whom cunnilingus will not be a burden, but only a joy.