But men sometimes (and not necessarily young green boys, they may be mature men), embarrassed to show their feelings. And sometimes it is not very clear what feelings a man feels for you and what it is: just a good friendly attitude, falling in love or just a physical inclination. After all, as is known, what is going on inside a man, it's very difficult to understand.
Then the question arises, how to recognize love over eyes and behavior, because, as you know, the eyes are the mirror of the soul. Let's try to answer this question below. What are the signs of recognizing the falling in love with a man.
Symptom one. Eyes, look.
As already mentioned above, the eyes are the mirror of the soul. And to understand that a man is in love, one must be able to truly look at them. But how to do it, if you are not an ophthalmologist? Here it is necessary to apply imagination, beginning with a banal request to look a speck in the eye, finishing with close observation. Here the main thing is not to overdo it, because a man can fade, shy and close, and then you do not understand anything. But if you did everything right and saw warmth and tenderness in your eyes, you can be sure he is in love.
The second sign. Words, dialogues.
People are social creatures, and can not live without communicating with each other. Therefore, one more sure way to recognize love, is to observe how he communicates with you, but as with others. Try to find out (but tactfully) what he says about you, what opinions he expresses. At a minimum, you need to understand whether he feels to you feelings different from those he feels for other women. And if yes, then by his statements, random phrases, even by expressive silence, one can understand that he does not breathe to you exactly.
The third sign. Actions, behavior, gestures.
As you know, even if a person is silent, his body still speaks for him, the position of hands, feet, hands, facial expressions, body posture. All this is our faithful allies in deciphering human feelings. The format of our article is too small to describe in detail how to interpret this or that behavior, this or that tin or pose. On this, I could advise you to read the literature on this issue, it will in any case be useful and interesting. After all, as we understand even at first sight negative behavior, it can actually have a double bottom and be just a protective reaction.
Here, perhaps, are some of the main signs by which one can recognize love. Of course, in fact, there are more of them.
There are, for example, specific signs, for example, one of my acquaintances, when I was in love, I began to drink a lot of milkshakes, which was connected with, I do not know, but on this basis it was possible to say at once that he fell in love. But as we understand, these are the most individually-specific signs of each one's own (but if you manage to recognize them, this will greatly simplify the task).
But of course, the quickest, honestest and easiest way to find out from a man about his feelings is to ask him directly. After all, as we know, honesty is the best policy, although it requires a certain courage.
And from this, girls, the last advice follows. If you get a hard nut to crack, and you can not recognize what it feels to you, ask it directly, it is, in fact, not enough for you, and it's much better than going at random.