Many older guys like fourteen-fifteen-year-old nymphets. Everyone is motivating in their own way, but they agree in one: the young girls are beautiful, nice and naive.
The relationship between a girl and an adult guy is always more difficult than dealing with one-year-olds. What can you expect from such a relationship? Of course, one of the most common options is entertainment. Yes, it's not bitter to understand this, but for guys, these girls are just toys. Easy prey. They still do not know the whole essence of life, they see everything through rose-colored glasses and believe almost every word. It's very easy for such a girl to "breed" and achieve from her everything she wants in just a few days. And guys sometimes just want to have fun, especially without straining. So they choose unpretentious naive girls and embody their desires into reality.
Of course, it also happens that the guy really falls in love. He even thinks that everything is serious. But, unfortunately, this does not last long. Still, the difference in age plays a big role. Of course, at first it's even sweet, to listen to naive speeches and raptures. But, over time, it starts to annoy. The difference of seven to eight years at this age is very palpable. Even if the girl is intelligent beyond her years and well-read, she still remains a child. Such a young lady can pour out terms, quote Schopenhauer and Sappho, but at the same time believe in things that in more adult people cause laughter. In addition, at the age of over twenty, men begin to think about serious relationships, and such girls are simply unsuitable for them because of their age. They are just starting to live, so they want to see everything, learn everything, go everywhere. And the guy already needs some kind of stability. When he begins to explain this to the passion, often, the girl perceives everything with hostility, accusing the beloved of being an owner and not allowing her to live.
In addition, different generations have completely different interests. In today's world, even a difference of four years is often felt. The world is changing and developing too fast. Each generation lives, as if in its time and does not always understand people from other time frames. Even when both the guy and the girl are trying to adjust themselves to each other, most often, it turns out the usual violence over the person. In the end, it all ends in scandals and rupture. After that, both suffer.
Normal older guys like to make his woman wise and understanding enough. And, no offense to young girls who are just beginning to live, their wisdom is just beginning to emerge. All these factors lead to constant quarrels, scandals and misunderstandings.
That's why, guys, they often decide to part ways. Of course, this decision is not at all shared by their second halves. Questions arise: what is wrong with me, what am I bad about, why does not he love me? A rational explanation of the situation is rarely perceived and accepted. Agree, because everyone at fifteen or sixteen years old seemed that he was an adult, intelligent and ready for adulthood. Only after the lapse of years we realize how small and naive at the time.
Of course, everyone has the right to choose with whom to be and who to love. But still girls at such a young age is better to tie relationships with peers or guys, senior for a couple of years. In this case, they will have much more and more often coincide interests and life priorities.
Naturally, we can say that you can not order your heart. But in this case it is better to think how much you are willing to take risks, realizing that in most cases these relations will end in a break. Is it worth it to experience the pain of parting, if feelings can be extinguished, until they are kindled strongly.
Of course, it's quite different when the girl is over twenty, and the guy is about thirty. At this age, the difference is much less. The thing is that women start thinking about family and serious relationships before, and guys come to this conclusion closer to thirty. That is why, their relationship is more stable, thanks to mutual understanding and common goals. At this age, a woman is already able to understand and support a man, and he, in turn, will be able to protect and provide it. In addition, when people pass the stage of youthful maximalism, they get rid of many teenage interests, the mismatch of which can lead to arguments. And this is how it happens at a younger age. A couple can quarrel over a song, a movie or a relationship to a subculture. And, the quarrel will be very serious and no one will want to concede. More adults understand that the taste and color of even the markers are different, that's why everyone should just stay with their opinion. This example is only a small part of what can lead to problems in couples where the guy is already over twenty, and the girl has hardly graduated from school.
Of course, in all the rules there are exceptions. That's why sometimes quite happy couples happen. If we talk about the psychology of such relationships, then, often a guy just likes to be a teacher, a kind of father for his beloved. There is such a category of men who like to decide everything themselves and are touched by children's whims and whims of the beloved. But still such men are in the minority. Basically, sooner or later, every guy wants to feel that his beloved can take care of him, help and support him in a difficult situation. Unfortunately, a fifteen-year-old girl is unlikely to be able to give it to him. That is why young women's hearts are broken, even without realizing the real problem. And after such a relationship on the soul, often, there are scars.
A good relationship is a harmony of concepts, tastes, desires, priorities and goals. The relationship between a girl and an adult guy, unfortunately, can not boast of the presence of all these components. That's why every young lady should think hard before falling in love with an older guy.