How to refresh the relationship with a guy

When you have been together for many years and realize that more and more distance arises between you, you are making love less and less often, new sensations seem to be closed, and then you start to come to the question: "How to refresh the relationship with a guy?" .
Then you begin to wonder what can not only have you such a relationship with a guy, but also with other couples? But, alas, no. Many couples admitted that they also experienced this crisis, and yet they achieved success and mutual understanding. But the question is: "How did they achieve such a result?" And here are some tips from sexologists, psychotherapists, and just "spouses with experience" who have already helped many.

1. Sex is a heavenly feeling

Many famous sexologist Dilya Enikeeva singing blows, compares with a duet. Perhaps you will agree that sex at eighteen years is different from thirty years of sex. After all, only in youth you can feel how you constantly play hormones in your blood, do not sleep the night, but in the morning you have a feeling fresh than a rose, before you the world is full of hopes and plans, you are beautiful, like Aphrodite and you are happy. Year after year, they take away from you beauty and self-confidence, especially faster when the husband constantly repeats about extra pounds and already all notable wrinkles, all the forces go to the family, there is not enough time for sleeping, not speaking about sex.

But still, if the couple is satisfied with their intimate relationships, then a background is created in which the relations of other spheres begin to develop. This background influences well the success of a relationship with a guy.

How in that case to be? In what reason? Do you see everything well in your daily relationships? If not, then try to find that emotional point of the discord in your relationship.

2. Try something to pamper each other

What a paradox arises that we never forget to dump all accumulated problems for the day, all claims, trouble for the husband, but we seem to forget to express tenderness. And here is one more sign of the beginning of the destruction of your relationship. Remember when you gave your husband coffee in bed? And when does your husband last have to rub your back in the shower?

Each pair has its own recipes for the expression of tenderness and love, so get down to your own! The more often you express your positive emotions, the stronger will be the sexual relations!

3. When the body is tired - then out of them, it's not strange, tired sex

Probably, many fell into such a situation, when the husband begins to show initiative, but you want to sleep? When you say, no - then the husband remains in insult when you say yes - then in the end you are lying exhausted. Sometimes it happens the other way round, when the husband is already responding to you "the head hurts." Surely in that case you need to rest. Some give their children to their grandmother, and at the weekend they ask their colleagues, they do not get acquaintances, others - who do not need to hurry in the morning, then they carry sex for the morning, the third - they put the children to bed, and then they give time to each other.

4. All the problems behind the door!

Telephone conversations with friends can be postponed until later. Office problems in the house do not take away, documents can also you can wait at work. In the event that you are waiting for an important call, turn on the answering machine. If the day turned out to be difficult and there were unresolved problems, then it is better not to plan any intimate relationships, because you will not give rest to those thoughts that you still need a lot of things to do. If you observe at least some of these rules, you should already have a chance to succeed in refreshing your relationship.

5. We communicate our plans to the husband

If you say in a businesslike way: "Darling, we have an evening of sex!" - then this would be a completely different attitude. Do not call twenty times a day, to remind me that it will be soon, and you are waiting for this evening. You can come home from work half an hour earlier and make a light dinner, which will be very pleasant for your spouse, you can take care of champagne or wine, go to a shower or a bath - when you build a positive mood, your husband will also feel it.

6. Be careful - traps!

When you use the same scenario in bed - this will be another trap, according to sexologists. That is, if you constantly eat the same fried potatoes, then the hour will come when only one look will bring you nausea. This leads to the fact that your "pastel diet" needs to be diversified.

7. Husband is not your girlfriend!

To your relationship does not deteriorate day after day, then do not forget that with you husband, not a girlfriend. And it's boring for you to win it every day. Do not disclose all of your shortcomings, that you have an extra 10 kg, or you have tooth decay - this will start to disgust your husband and he will be bored that as if you dump all your problems on him.

8. Humor is good!

Of course, serious sex can remind even a business meeting, so a way to refresh your relationship is to laugh.

9. Memories are an ally!

If between you there is a cold, then old photos, interesting memories, will help to remember how you still strongly love each other.

10. Come with a flirt!

Many will agree that it's hard to flirt with your husband! But! Try on a walk to tell your future scenario of a great night if you are visiting to try to charm him by stroking his knee and trying to climb higher and higher. There are many ways, the main thing is to choose one that your husband likes! Do I need to teach you? Do not forget that your passion is still with you, but only it is covered with dust, because for a long time no one has used it, enjoy life!

Ksenia Ivanova , especially for the site