Do not try to blackmail a man. Do not go to extreme measures. Do not scandalize and do not threaten that part with him, if he does not marry you. Be wary that a man, weighing all the pros and cons, will prefer the freedom of a bachelor, despite your wonderful relationship. Every man, like a child, acts from the opposite. If you force him to do something, then from the spirit of contradiction he will not do it. If something is forbidden, then it will be specially, or maybe unconsciously, trying to do it. The Forbidden fruit is sweet. So how to make a man himself want to make an offer?
To begin with, talk to your young man about how he represents your family life in the distant future and whether there is anyway. Ask how he relates to the family, to the children. Think about his family. If a person grew up in a full family, where there was both mother and father, and in this family there was harmony and love of parents, your man sooner or later will also strive to create his own family. If your chosen one was raised in an incomplete family or in a family with constant scandals, where parents disrespect each other, then most likely he will avoid the family as such, fearing to repeat the sad experience of his parents. A joint trip to the family psychologist can help here.
There is a common belief that men until the last avoid marriage and are afraid of it as fire. According to surveys, most men still want to get married. They often think about linking their lives with one woman, having a regular sex life with her, and then having children. Create a family and build relationships in it.
To a man made you an offer, do not resort to radical measures. Move to your goal gradually. Be with the man always and everywhere, support him in everything. A man should be confident in you, know that you are the one that does not let you down. Accept your man as he is. He must be sure that if he wakes up one morning, if suddenly he wants to radically change his life, change his work to a less paid one and can be more dangerous but interesting to him, you will not grumble.
Men are frightened by the female need to remodel their companions. Men do not want to give up things that give them joy, for the sake of family life. Support your man in his hobbies, be it football or motorcycles. Do not try to remake it or re-educate it, take it as it is.
Do not let your love go out. Support it with various important trifles: a few affectionate words at moments of tenderness, Japanese sushi, not bought in a restaurant, but cooked by the house itself, a subscription to riding courses.
Show your man that you will make an amazing mother. Men are touched by the tenderness and determination of real mothers.
There are no specific recipes for what to do to make a man offer an offer of hands and hearts. Become a man for your man, one and only, without which he will not present his future life. And then you do not have to wait long for a man to make an offer.