I fell in love with a teacher, what should I do?

Love always comes unexpectedly and sometimes completely not to those whom, it seems to us, it is worth loving. For example, in college, many girls fall in love with their teachers. Often, these are young guys who have only recently graduated from the university. But there are also cases when feelings flash out for older men. However, however, the feeling of love is still one, it torments, makes to do rash acts and constantly think about whether they can be together or the girl does something wrong. In fact, in love with the teacher there is nothing reprehensible. But in order to achieve some result or at least not to spoil everything, you need to behave yourself and not do stupid things.


Bring yourself cheekily

Many girls make a big mistake trying to seduce the teacher. They wear mini skirts and open blouses, begin to behave invitingly and so on. This behavior only attracts a woman. If your teacher is such, then, of course, he will respond to your calls, but further your relationship will not go anywhere. In the end, you will cry in the corners, and he will begin to flirt with the next youngstudent. If the teacher is a sufficiently serious young man, he will never allow himself to react to this behavior. Moreover, it can start to irritate him. In addition, the teachers are perfectly aware that no one will write out bonuses for the relations with the students. Therefore, they try to avoid such situations. But if a man really likes his student, he can try to start dating her. But such provocations and cheeky behavior will certainly not lead to such a thing.

Try to make friends

If you want to establish contact with the teacher, try and make friends with him. Young people easily come into contact with students to the strength of a small age difference. So you just need to find the reason to start a conversation. It may be something about learning or about his interests, which he told you about. You need to establish the first contact and if it succeeds, then you can already communicate on different topics. But if you see that the teacher does not want to talk to you, you do not need to try to get his attention by any means. His behavior indicates that you are not interesting to him even as a person, not to mention the female attractiveness. Of course, this is painful and insulting, but it's better to understand everything in every way than to long for yourself to empty hopes. You must understand that it is impossible to be someone nice by force. Therefore, one can not continue his attempts to get close to the teacher somehow. On the side of this it will look as if you are pursuing it and simply being imposed.

If the teacher has contacted, then you can dare to communicate with him. But in no case do not force events. Do not immediately raise some intimate topics and even more admit to love. It is just for us to talk to a person the way you communicate with any new person. And in any case, do not build far-reaching plans. Perhaps a person wants to be friends with you, but he does not see your pair in you. Therefore, before you start planning a wedding, find out a better person, understand how the kakon treats you.

Do not slander your love with classmates

Of course, it is very difficult for girls to remain silent about their feelings, but if you want to have at least a relationship with a teacher, then do not allow yourself to discuss love with classmates. If this happens, in a few days the teacher will start to squint and gradually hear rumors of your love. And as you know, rumors are very different from what was said initially. Therefore, it may happen that your teacher will start to fear you, like a plague, because someone will tell him about your obsessions and depraved dreams about his person. In addition, a normal man is sure that if the girl has in relation to him at least some serious intentions, she will not allow herself to become the cause of rumors, gossip and strange looks in his direction.

Of course, the university is not a school, and for a relationship with a student the teacher will not be nursed, but they can easily fire. So before you start devotional in your personal experiences, think a hundred times whether you need it. Especially if you do not even really know the teacher and do not know about his personal life. It is quite possible that he is married or meets someone. And your behavior will cause conflicts with his beloved, because it will hear about you. Of course, some may think that such a situation, on the contrary, will help to make the teacher their own, but never forget that on someone else's misfortune oh, how difficult it is to build one's happiness. So do not create such situations, because everything can lead to the fact that the teacher does not love you, but simply will hate. Try to keep all your feelings to yourself, do not rush and do not try to win the teacher's heart for one day. If you do not hurry and if, most importantly, the young man has sympathy for you, then it is quite possible that soon you will truly become a happy couple.

Nothing wrong

Some girls are experiencing because of the very fact of falling in love with the teacher. They think that they are doing something bad, wrong. In fact, in their sense there is nothing strange and abnormal, of course, it does not turn into an obsession. If you love a teacher, even when he is noticeably older than you, it means only what you see in this person, what you do not see in other guys or simply endowed him with such qualities. The love of the teacher means that in your life there is not enough of a wise strong person male, who can teach, prompt, explain and find solutions to all problems. That's why, seeing how the instructor operates with knowledge, how much information he has, how confident he is in himself and in his own, you begin to feel that you love him. But in fact, if you do not know the person really, then your feelings are in love with the image that you lack in real life. So do not be afraid of your love, just find out if it's real. And if you are really in love with the teacher, then no one forbids you to try to build relationships with him. But in the case when you realize that love is not getting, find the strength to retreat, and do not turn into an obsessive, crazy student from American thrillers.