Love is an incredible time, when all thoughts are focused only on one person. I want to spend as much time together, and so that this time is not wasted, I want to not only sit in an embrace and watch a romantic film, but also have fun.
At the beginning of the relationship, lovers do not imagine life without each other, so they always have topics for conversation, they constantly write messages to each other, talk endlessly over the phone. Not to see each other, even a small amount of time for them is considered torture. Some do not want to let go of their lover or lover for a second, they prefer to do everything together. But should it really be so?
Many of us devote too much time to love affairs, and this can cause many problems. Many sacrifice their studies or work, in order to see their beloved, how to spend more time with him. But this position is harmful, first of all. It is not necessary to drop out of school or skip classes, to ask for early work or not to attend at all only because you are in love and think about your beloved every minute.
Perhaps the best option for the relationship is quality, not quantity. If the couple in love spend the whole day together, then the next day in their memory, the pleasant moments of the previous day will be remembered. In principle, it should be so. So, the time spent together in a hurry, will put on you even greater longing. Therefore, do not constantly try to escape at least a minute to see, it will be more important to meet in your spare time and spend the whole day together, rather than snatching short moments.
There is an opinion that if you spend too much time together, you can lose your individuality. Constant pastime in the company of one person, even the most ambitious, can promote your isolation in communicating with other people. By the same, accustoming to do everything together, you simply can not carry loneliness and do some things yourself, you will want to see a lover nearby, so that he will help you. Therefore, you will simply depend very much on your second half. It can not be said that such relationships are very bad and unstable, just one day when your loved one will refuse to help you in something or can not pay proper attention, as it was before, you will doubt his love for you.
In a word, too frequent communication can harm you. And how can all this escape?
Perhaps, the first, - it is not necessary to be forgotten about friends and relatives, if you have a love relationship. Do not fence off from them and hide in the beloved, completely immersed in it. Otherwise, your friends will simply take offense at you and in case of a quarrel with your loved one, you will not share your grief with anyone and no one will be able to support you. If this happens, you will more and more immerse yourself in your mate, and after all, she, too, will someday be the only one whom you notice and with whom you want to communicate.
The second thing you have to do is to decide for yourself whether you want a real relationship in which you both wake up as a person. You need to decide with your beloved questions about the things that you will do together and which ones you should divide.
Do not put a cross on your interests, studies, work. Continue the same way to do your own business and give freedom to your loved one. If you are strongly attached to each other, then it will set both on a chain. But remember, each person should have his own personal time and even your lover, who has the right to conduct it not as swami.
Another issue in the relationship that has begun is how to spend time together.
Whether you are a married couple or prostitute, who just started dating, one way or another there is the question of a joint pastime and most importantly, to conduct it with benefit. Just like in relationships, in joint rest, the main thing is quality, not quantity. There is a lot of spare time in the reserve, and someone just a few hours, but this should not affect the quality of the rest.
First of all, you need to choose those days in which you will be as free as possible, to spend time on joint holiday and entertainment and choose what you will be doing.
Now more and more popular are going to the movies. Such a holiday will help you and relax, and have fun, watching the capturing plot of the film. It can be a romantic comedy, an idramatic thriller, and a thrilling horror film, the main thing is that the chosen picture matches the tastes of both lovers, then it will be a pleasant pastime.
It would be nice at least once a week, depending on the financial possibilities of the partner, to visit a cafe or restaurant. The romantic atmosphere, wine or champagne, delicious snacks will bring about your relations and allow you to relax, to talk heart to heart.
No less important are walks on fresh air, whether it is a park, a square or just a street in a night city. Such a holiday is romantic in its own way. Such walks can be diversified by roller skating, cycling. Many people like to visit parks and ride on various attractions. It is very exciting and unforgettable. You still long to remember about such entertainment and, undoubtedly, want to repeat it, not once.
In summer, your holiday environment can become a daydream. There is nothing better than to lie down together on a warm sand and dive into the cool stove. If there are no places for swimming in your city, you can go to the pool. Of course, the pool does not replace outdoor recreation, but will allow you to spend time together.
Walking shopping for some reason is always considered only a woman's occupation. But why not take with him and his love, if he certainly does not mind? And, it is not necessary to buy something for yourself, make a favorite surprise and choose something for him. Only it is not worthwhile to walk for a long time shopping, a man, if he does not show that he is tired, then he certainly thinks, and for a long time such rest will be a long time to rest.
Do not forget about the rest with friends. It is very important for men to communicate with someone other than you. Invite and your friends. Together you can go to nature, fry shish kebabs, talk in plenty.
If you are already familiar with his parents and know their young man with their own, it would not be bad to visit them, go or visit them. You can arrange a small family dinner, where you can get better acquainted, perhaps with future father-in-law and a mother-in-law and father-in-law. In addition, if your partner has a younger sister, then you can take them to rest on nature or in a park. It will diversify your entertainment and strengthen relations with future relatives, and it is possible, will help to imagine how you will walk in the future with your children.
I would like to remind you once again that the main thing is not to overdo it. Do not get hung up on the subject of love alone, because if everything goes well, you will still be together all your life and have time to get bored with each other. And most importantly, do not forget about the entertainment and joint recreation, which will help diversify your relationship and you will not be bored with each other.