To begin with, you need to be ready for this. Love is not just a gift, but an art, a skill that needs to be developed. In order to love another person, it is not enough to concentrate on him alone, the point is that one must start from oneself. If I want to meet a love of love, I must first work on myself, be ready for it. The most important thing is that it is impossible to love another person without first loving yourself. A person who longs for reciprocity must first find in himself what will respectively cause this reciprocity, to know himself well and his character, appearance. To realize your advantages and disadvantages, and if there are significant obstacles or disadvantages - it's good to work on it. In order to meet love with dignity, one must be ready to fully immerse in it, and establish order in other spheres of life in order not to have behind the back of serious unresolved problems. Love loves special attention. From this it follows that in order to meet your soulmate, you need to be able to love and learn both yourself and the world around, be able to solve your problems and be ready for this heart.
Then comes the second step - action. In order to meet love, one desire is not enough, action is also necessary. If I begin to imagine myself as a princess in a castle and will stay at home, as in the highest tower - this will not work. In order to know love, you need to get acquainted with new people, be ready and open to communication. Also, searches are well narrowed by certain preferences and rules. For example, it is necessary to characterize the main unacceptable shortcomings for a loved one, or those people who just do not fit you and try to avoid them. You can calculate what you like yourself and use it to meet a soul mate. For example, I like reading books, literature and libraries, I want my chosen one to also share my love for books. In order to meet such a man, it is enough to spend more time in appropriate places, not to be afraid to talk to someone, to discuss a favorite work. If you see that someone is holding your favorite book in your hands and reading it with pleasure - you can talk to this stranger and discuss with him the feelings after reading. If your tastes converge, in the future you can meet. What if it really turns out to be the person who needs it? If not, you can always remain friends with him, have a good time and have fun, chat. Or suddenly, fate will decide to change life for the better. But in any case, do not be obtrusive, if you can see that a person is more keen on another occupation, it is better to step back and do not interfere with him. He clearly expresses his interests and they need to be respected.
In order to meet mutual love, you also need to understand a lot about life, about people. That is why, mutual love in most cases comes in a more mature age. In addition to being prepared for it, you also need experience. You need to be able to distinguish a good person from a bad person, someone who is interested in you as a person and who is going to just use you. You also need to know what you want from life, what you are aiming for, and to seek a person who will share your opinion. It is not enough to find a person who will love you, you also need someone with whom you have a perspective in the future and the relationship with him will be strong and long. Correctly said in ancient times - love is when you do not look not at each other, but in one direction. If you have different views and interests with a person, love can not live very long, and it will not get real value.
Another important rule that should be singled out is that haste is not needed here. Consistency and confidence are important. Do not rush, impose, constantly and intently to see in every man a potential husband. This will be an obvious mistake. Also it is worth to be confident in your abilities, remember that if I want to meet mutual love - I will get it. It is not necessary to linger on men in whom you are not completely sure, or they are unworthy, or have too many shortcomings, in order to fix something, to close your eyes to some things. Constantly you need to move forward.
The last important rule is the path of movement and faith. If you have made many mistakes, stop believing in love, although you want to meet it, if you are abandoned, or have brought you much pain, and attempts to find mutual love have not been successful - do not get upset. We learn from mistakes, we must constantly look ahead and do not look back. This can be done only if you need to analyze the situation, in all other cases you need to move on, believe and love. If you want, you search, you will find. Love beyond the control of time - it can happen later or earlier, at any moment of life. But in each of these cases, you need to be ready, seek, believe and love, until there is no doubt - here it is, the mutual wonderful love that I have been looking for all my life.