If you can say for what you love a person ...
Many, speaking of love, often recall Shakespeare's phrase that when a person truly loves, he can not explain what for. In fact, this statement is not entirely correct. Rather, a person in love simply does not have enough words to describe his lover. But at the same time he can completely determine what exactly love has caused. This can be kindness, strength, self-confidence, a sense of security next to a young man. And this is really love. But the fact is that this kind of love can not last forever. In time, we fully recognize the person, all his pluses and minuses, the interest begins to fade away. And if there is nothing between a man and a woman, love fades with interest or is transformed into another feeling. The fact is that a person can not always be close to someone who is his complete opposite to tastes and interests. If you initially argue for each occasion is even fun, then in the end it's just boring. People stop bored with each other, because they do not know what to do. A girl wants to go to a horror movie, but a guy needs only an action movie. The guy proposes to have a summer's rest in the mountains, and the girl can not lead a vacation away from the sea. Vitoga, people either constantly quarrel, or more and more often lead time apart. They have new acquaintances and it may well be that other people are imputed to whom feelings may also arise.
Therefore, if you see that you are different people, this does not mean that there is no love. Just such a love can run out or become transformed into another feeling. Without common interests, one can love a brother, even a friend. With a man who plays just such a role in your life, you do not have to spend so much time together. You love him, because he is dear. But if you are bored, you can go to other friends. Brother or a girl will not be offended and you will not part because brothers and friends can be a lot, and a loved one is just one. And if you see that very different with a young man, maybe you should just translate your relationship into another plane. Perhaps you will become wonderful friends and you can be friends for many years. After all, any dispute with a friend causes more feelings of passion. But the dispute with the guy - resentment and tears. So do not think that you do not love each other. Always remember that love can be different and, perhaps, you just need to change the type of relationship.
Ятебя it was blinded from that which was, well, and that was, then fell in love
Another option of love between different people is love in the ideal. In this case, people get acquainted and create images, instead of seeing real people. The reasons for this behavior can be many. Perhaps the guy or girl has long sought his half and the inability to communicate often with him personally, constantly thinking about the beloved, giving him more and more quantity of qualities that a person actually does not have. Or they simply like to idealize people, so they constantly come up with some excuses and explain things completely differently than they really are. In this case, the question of whether or not such different people really love each other becomes very relevant. The fact is that in such a situation it is difficult to talk about love for a real person. Rather, this love is not real. People are constantly engaged in self-deception, from which they enjoy themselves. For example, they may well perceive the criticism of a young man as a test of his feelings. Although, in fact, criticizing, he actually said that he does not like.
Such love can last a very long time. Up to this point, until someone bothers to deceive themselves. The fact is that it is very difficult for different people to be together. And if they really allow themselves to see what is really happening, the relationship will very quickly come to an end. Therefore, if you constantly catch yourself that you are with a man a little different, think how realistic you are towards him. Perhaps he is not at all as kind, intelligent and sensual as you want to see it. Sometimes it happens that there may be a weak-willed islabocharacter botanist nearby, which you, a woman who is strong and risky, does not fit at all. So, if you feel in the depths of your soul that you are different from men, not only in taste and interest, but also in character traits, attitude to life and people, and so on, then you really should think about someone you love: a person or the created image. Be sure that after you analyze everything and see the real situation, love will pass. And remember for the future: you can never fall in love with the image created by you, because sooner or later it will necessarily disappoint you.
But I love him!
Many women say that they love their men, despite the fact that they have nothing in common. And if this is not a love for the image, about which it was said above, then such feelings quite have a place to be. You really can love someone who does not look like you. Just the more active you are, the more difficult it will be for you to get along together. Love for some kind of character traits gives the basis for relationships. But then it must be added to the fact that you are interested in something to do together, watch something, read something, play something. If it is not, then such love will remain the same love between a man and a woman only when the couple are very calm, even inert people. That is, when they do not have anything common, but their own, too. They do not care what to do in principle. In other cases, you can love a person to the point of madness, but eventually he will start to irritate you with the same force. About this is usually said: "it's bad, the lack of life is even worse." This means that there are feelings, but in addition to these feelings, you have to cement your relationships much more.
Therefore, summing up the line under all the above, it can be said that different people can really love each other, and if you translate the relationship into another plane, this love may not end thereafter. After all, friendship - this is also a form of love and, perhaps, even better, than the love in its pure form between a man and a woman.