Internet dating - are they promising?

In the modern world, virtual communication is becoming more popular and popular. Some people in the network have more friends than in real life. But despite our constant existence online, can we translate all the relationships that we have on the computer monitor, into real friendship and love? In general, do online dating have any prospects in reality or do such relationships end when the computer is turned off?


Why it all began

It is possible to understand how much your acquaintance and your communication are promising, even with the very first phrases. If the man turned to you with the standard words "Hello beauty. Why not a spitz? ", Then such an acquaintance can be safely classified as unpromising. After all, people who write such template phrases, yes even everyone in a row, while making terrible mistakes, do not have either a mind or a fantasy. In addition, they are looking for an interesting interlocutor and a soul, and the one with whom it would be possible in the future to have sex. So, if such young people approach you, it's better not to start copying them, because you will not get anything except an obsessive, uninteresting needle-mouth interlocutor. More promising ones can be considered acquaintances that occurred spontaneously. For example, people discussed the news in a certain group in a contact, and then they talked so much that this communication turned into personal correspondence. In this case, your acquaintance can be equated to the real, because you did not choose each other from photos and statuses. Just ran into a water place and at one time, as it often happens in real life.

Reality

It's no secret that many people behave on the Internet quite differently than in real life. And, some really play, the others just open up those sides, which for some reason can not manifest in the real world. So communicating with someone, you should be aware that a real person can be very different from the one you see with the stitch of a monitor and thinking about the prospects of relations in real life, be prepared for interesting surprises. They can be as pleasant, not really.

In order to understand how your relationship is real, try to communicate more via Skype or phone. When we talk online, we do not have time to think about it. Therefore, if in correspondence people can decorate something, change, inculcate, then hearing each other's voice you can more realistically assess the real essence of your interlocutor and understand what you can expect from him actually. But you do not need to tie your dreams to the image that you create by looking at the page in contact. Never forget that even when communicating in reality, we can not at once understand what a person is. And poavartarkam, albums and statuses of this and even more so do not. Even if you calculate yourself as a great psychologist, your analysis of information about a person will nevertheless not be sufficiently correct and sufficiently complete. Everyone has their secret corners of the soul, secrets and vice versa, exaggerated victories, which he wants to put on public display. Therefore, determining the prospects of dating on the Internet, be honest with yourself and do not create illusory images. Until you see a person firsthand, until you talk to him at least for a while, it will be very difficult for you to understand what it really is and what you should expect of it.

You'll play game

Perhaps, it is necessary to talk separately about love in online games. Living in a virtual world, creating and pumping a character, we get acquainted with other players, communicate, help each other. Over time, looking at the character begins to seem that this is really a real person, with whom we have been friendly, whom we love. Good graphics and nice faces of our heroes create the effect of presence. In addition, in many games you can create families and other characters. And often it happens that people fall in love online, transfer these feelings into reality, and then very much disappointed. Unfortunately, this is quite natural. Never forget that the game is a game. Starting to play, almost all people wear masks. Of course, there are others who remain the same as in life, but there are very few of them. Basically, the players are completely changed as soon as they click on the "input" to the online game. They do not just feel like a spellcaster who commands elementals of four elements and can be killed by the spells of any monster. No, they feel like heroes, boyfriends girls who live exactly in this world. And when in the expanses of the game another person with whom sympathy arises, flirting and promising behavior may not be a manifestation of the feelings of the person who sits in front of the monitor. No, all these feelings belong to the character, to whom the person came up with a role. In online games, such people allow themselves to fall in love, flirt, talk intimate things, while in real life they can skem something to meet, be married or married. This behavior is quite understandable. This is either a lack of attention on the part of the beloved, or a fairly windy and amorous nature, which in life they hold back, but in the game they allow you to harden up, missed in reality. Therefore, do not seriously take gaming and love affidavits. Think about yourself, what kind of love you can talk about, if you're just a painted character. Even if you continue to communicate not only in the game, but also in Skype or contact, you continue to perceive it as a part of the game, a virtual fantasy world in which you are all-powerful, intelligent, beautiful, possessing amazing knowledge and capabilities. In order not to be disappointed, you must always remember this and not build illusions. Indeed, as practice shows, many real acquaintances, which occur on the basis of virtual communication, bring some disappointment.

But still, one can not say with absolute certainty that virtual acquaintances in general have no prospects. Just in order not to have the hardest hopes, you need to arrange a meeting as soon as possible in real life. If a person refuses such meetings, then he really does not relate to such communication seriously or behaves completely differently than in life. Therefore, do not be afraid to talk about real meetings. Exactly the answers to such questions will be "litmus paper", which will determine the prospects for this type of relationship.