We do not want to lose loved ones, we do not want to feel pain, but sometimes it does happen. I propose to look at the situation with female eyes.
When we argue with a beloved man, often even unwillingly, pride often prevents us from taking the first step towards reconciliation, or to start a simple heart-to-heart conversation. It seems to us that if we are the first to take a step towards reconciliation, then we admit our guilt, and we will be at the mercy of men's decisions. And we do not know how to tell a man that love has not passed, that a quarrel is just a minute of weakness, which the woman has already regretted a hundred times. After all, we, women so often speaking, leave, we want our beloved man to stay with us. But let's try to look at the situation calmly and soberly.
First, let's look at the time frame. How long have you broken up, if you quarreled only today or a couple of days ago, maybe it will be enough just to ask for forgiveness (of course, if it was you were wrong) and tell the man that you love him very much, that he is the most intelligent, the most , the most kind, the most beautiful, and that without him you will simply disappear, you will not be able to live a day. Men love flattery, and love to feel indispensable.
If months pass, and you still can not forget it, everything will be somewhat more complicated. First try to make friends and become "friends", if you parted with the scandal. Communicating with your beloved, you can try to find out what he is feeling for you now, maybe in his heart of hearts he still loves you, just pride and male pride do not allow him to put his feelings on display. And only after making sure that the man also wants to continue to build relationships with you, you can tell him that your love has not passed.
Only I do not advise you to rush into the pool, and immediately disclose all your cards. Do not forget that a man by nature is a hunter, and he likes to hunt longer. It will suffice to hint that you are not against the relationship, but the rest is his concern. After all, from time immemorial, men sought the favor of beautiful ladies, and not vice versa.
If you decide to tell a man that you love him, he will simply lose interest in you. Or, as an option, will begin to avoid, perceiving female persistence, as a threat to his personal freedom.
And if all the same the man does not perceive you more as a woman. But only, for example, as a friend. Talk about your feelings or be silent, it's up to you. Sometimes it is very necessary to speak out, then it becomes much easier. And in some situations, it's better just to leave, try not to meet with this person, so as not to bother the old wound. Time heals everything, sooner or later, and it will pass. And although now, when it hurts, and so you want it, that very one was next to you, every day the pain will be dulled, and one day waking up in the morning, you will understand that life goes on, and for you as well.
Also it is necessary to think, whether it is necessary to try to return the man with whom you have left. I will give an example, my friend met a young man, and everything was fine until the time when she found out that she was pregnant. The young man disappeared for several months, then periodically announced, apparently to pat her nerves and make sure that she did not forget him. And the girl kept hoping that he would come to his senses, and they would have a normal family, tried at least somehow to establish relations with him. But one day, the girl realized that with this person, it would be impossible to build a normal relationship, because even though he wants it, he is insanely afraid of responsibility. After all, in the end, everything has its limit, and patience is not unlimited.
Of course, the situation is not very pleasant, but it clearly shows that at times men are unworthy of our love. Of course, I always want to believe only in good things. I want to believe that a loved one will cease to be a scum and still begin to act honestly and decently in relation to you, but very rarely it turns out as we want. And although we women sometimes do not know how to tell men that love has not passed, but before doing this, think carefully about whether your chosen one is worthy of your love. After all, it's only we, women, decide with whom to be, and what the existing relationship will be like. And maybe now it will be better to grind your teeth and then find a truly worthy person. A real man who will really love you more than life, and will do everything possible and impossible, so that you will be happy together for many long years of life.