Why did this happen to you? Are there any mistakes in this? How to behave yourself to never be faithful again? So many questions, perhaps, are spinning in your head, and so few answers to them. When you sit on the next evening and mourn your trampled love, it's so difficult to objectively look at things and analyze the current situation. But, believe me, sooner or later you will have to do it, because you do not want a repetition of a sad scenario? So now consider the question: "Why do men change?". We shall plunge into man's psychology.
Of course, the first thing that comes to mind is a banal phrase that all men are polygamous in nature. Believe me, ladies, this is just a delusion that is firmly rooted in the minds of thousands of men and women who skillfully use this to justify their mistakes. It can not be denied that our ancient, ancient ancestors had a somewhat different psychology than modern people. The behavior of the ancient man was instinctive, the level of social relations was so low that the ancient people carried out their livelihoods according to the laws of nature. Male - is aggressive, must defend his right to life, the breadwinner, and the successor of the family. His task is to produce as many as possible similar ones to him, respectively, the younger and healthier the female, the better, and if there are many, then this is an ideal option. But, you will agree, the modern world has far gone from the primitive society. A man, as before, must prove his consistency and authority, maintain a family, but the need for dozens of such people has disappeared. That's why now a person lives not according to instincts, but according to social values and norms. Of course, there are still such primitive males who need more and more females, and if you get caught like this, it's not your fault, you were lucky that he left you and stopped spoiling your life.
Another possible reason is the crisis. In psychology, there is such a thing as a crisis, which means a transition to some new qualitative state, a break in the previous stereotypes and values. Perhaps your former one has experienced such a crisis. Yes, yes, in adults it happens, it's not just for teenagers. It is likely that your ex-men exchanged views, there was some kind of inner conflict, stress and betrayal - this is detente. Most likely, a man will later regret it, but it happens to be a habit.
With age, some men have self-doubt, this sounds somewhat unusual, because we are used to the fact that women are always worried about age changes, but as practice shows, men are also prone to age complexes. Perhaps, it seems to him that he is not so good himself, and the sexual health is failing, and to prove to himself that "there is still gunpowder in the flasks", the man goes on treason. In this case, it is not excluded the fault of a woman who was near and did not inspire confidence in her man on time.
Thanks to psychological research, it turned out that men are afraid of physical treason, and women are spiritual. It is possible that your man just fell in love, because all ages are submissive to love. Under the influence of oxytocin, which is released when falling in love, he simply can not reasonably assess the situation, so blindly changes, not realizing that it is not fair to an already unloved woman.
Another reason is revenge. Think, but did not give you reasons to believe that you yourself are not averse to change her husband. Perhaps you are pure and honest before the faithful, but your behavior in some situations gave reason to think that you have changed a man. And who wants to be deceived, that's why it's a matter of honor, that is, a matter of revenge. And it's too late to find out the reasons. The man felt deceived and decided to restore justice.
The reasons are still huge. Everyone, as they say, has their own cockroaches ... But if you feel that you yourself are to blame for what happened, then you need to draw conclusions. Maybe you are too "zapilili" his man, or paid little attention, may become unattractive or cold. Well think about it, so that henceforth your men will always be with you.