Is a kiss capable of causing such consequences? The answer is very simple. Everyone understands treason in his own way. For someone it's sex, and someone thinks that cheating can only be spiritual, that is, if the partner fell in love, or experienced some feelings, then this is treason. And if he just satisfied his desires, then this can not be considered a betrayal. The right to exist has all these theories, because there are so many people, so many opinions. Therefore, to consider a kiss as a betrayal or not to decide for you. This article will provide the facts that will help you make a choice.
So. Speaking of the importance of the kiss, it must be said that most people underestimate it. And this is wrong. Remember the first kiss. And it is remembered by all people, regardless of age, regardless of the number of partners. After all, the first kiss is in a sense an entry into adulthood.
There is a very ancient saying: "Do not give a kiss without love." And this is absolutely correct. After all, a kiss does not happen for no reason, it does not shake hands. A kiss gives hope and a boost to the development of new relationships.
As there is an opinion that a kiss can not be considered a betrayal, but you can and should be considered a good blow to self-esteem. After all, a kiss with another person is also difficult enough to survive. And you need to think about it, because if there is a kiss, maybe something more is just around the corner? .. Therefore, you need to think about, take measures so that no real trouble really happens.
On the other hand, if the partner kissed or allowed to kiss himself, then, so he opened that one to the so-called "admission to the body," letting the person into his personal space. And it turns out that in his mind he has already changed. After all, when kissing, he experienced a different kind of sensation, then he realized how he acts and naturally foresaw certain consequences. But he did not stop, he did not give up the kiss with another person. Therefore, treason was already committed, so to speak, mentally, in the inner world of man. And thus we can conclude that a person changes before the kiss, and a kiss is only a logical conclusion of this betrayal.
But it must be borne in mind that kisses are also different. After all, there are kisses with friends, with relatives, with a loved one. And so there is a fine line between a "legitimate" and a treacherous kiss, which must be distinguished. After all, if your boss kisses your girlfriend's hand at an official event, you do not consider this a betrayal. Therefore, you need to determine for yourself immediately what you will consider treason and what not. You can not reduce everything to one basis. This is stupid and wrong.
Personally, my opinion: a kiss is considered a betrayal only when feelings occur, when the heart is pounding at a furious speed, when a person loses time and thoughts when he forgets about everything and about everyone. Then it will be considered treason. Because the kiss itself does not carry any danger. He can not be considered a betrayal. The danger lies precisely in the feelings and sensations that overwhelm during a kiss.
But on the other hand, and carelessly this can not be treated, because the kiss is a kind of separator of friendship and love. It is with him that the relationship begins, it is worth a million words, it is we who give it after a long separation to a loved one.
As already mentioned at the beginning, betrayal or not, it's up to you. One thing is for sure: give kisses only to your loved one and be happy.