In her life there were ups and downs, despair and doubts, but she is always open to the new and now knows the secret of happiness.
Sexy, inviting, cheerful "black from the" Via Gyra "has always remained a favorite of the public, no matter how many times the composition of the most successful Ukrainian group.
In her life there were ups and downs, despair and doubts, but she is always open to the new and now knows the secret of happiness.
Secretly from my mother, in 2000, an 18-year-old graduate of Khmelnytsky Pedagogical School became a soloist of "Via Gry". Brilliant career did not stop even the birth of his son - Nadia Granovskaya returned to the scene when Igor was only a month. And then she was tired and left the "Via Gyra". And there was a new Nadia, Nadia Mayher, the host of the TV program "Incredible Love Stories" on the STB channel - with her hair cut, in tightly buttoned dresses. Today the sex bomb sings again about love. And this is again the new Nadia! Creatively versatile, she gushes with ideas and lives in harmony with herself and the world.
Three years you lived in your own pleasure - paid attention to his son, worked as a TV presenter, did academic vocal, English and Spanish. Now you have a strained rhythm of life again. What do you have to give up because of a time deficit?
N.M. I have enough time for everything, because time for me does not exist - there is an internal rhythm, I often listen to my heart. And I prefer the rhythm very different, the main thing is to feel the edge. As soon as you notice overstrain or excessive passivity, it's worth stopping and thinking about. Although I admit different states in my life, it is good for me.
Weeping?
N.M. Of course, I'm crying! And in solitude, and someone "in a vest." Nature surprisingly arranged a man - it is necessary to cry both to men and women. After all, tears are a panacea for so many troubles.
At one time, you were treated and quite successfully from aerophobia from the therapist. After such an experience, would you recommend a person with psychological problems to turn to a specialist or still sort out on their own?
N.M. As a rule, it's almost impossible to understand yourself. I do not see anything reprehensible in the fact that people turn to a psychologist. From scrapes it is necessary to get out in any way. Our human world is ruthless: either you are a "vegetable", or you take responsibility for your life, develop a variety, establish your own rules. Which way you are going is the second question. The main thing is that there are no victims, keeping the maximum calm. Emotion is ruined, destroyed with difficulty built. Believe me, all the best goes around, you just need to let yourself be worthy of the best.
You admitted that you are a person inclined to self-doubt and doubt. Do you think these traits help you become better?
N.M. None of these features contribute to development. This is the first thing that I had to get rid of in order to go further, and also from a constant sense of guilt. And in this state there are many. That's why we can not defend our rights as citizens of our country, most of us are puppets.
How has the public life changed you? Have you become a different person?
N.M. It could have turned if it had not been hypersensitivity to lies and hypocrisy. Everything has its price, and I'm not ready for the sake of insane fame, to pay money for my innate love of freedom and the well-being of my son. White and black was, is and will be - it all depends on what you choose.
In the autumn your debut collection of intimate poems "A momentary attraction" came out.
Tell us how these poems were born, based, as you know, on real facts.
N.M. I started writing the first poems after my son was born in 2002. Then I was depressed, some of the then written, fairly tough players, entered the book. And then a pause: wandering, the time of losing yourself. And only in 2006, when there was a lot of time, I again started writing - many different things, I was looking for handwriting, filing. Now I understand that sooner or later I would start writing because I found myself in another world where I feel comfortable, where I am at home, in my own dish, where I have a clean sheet of paper, and only so I can be more than frank. All inside out, all dashed, the flight of the soul and its fall. I write in completely different, most important, bright states, letting the outside world through the prism of my perception, impressions and bright dreams, and no less imaginative.
The book is illustrated with your candid photos. Why did you decide to "show everything"?
N.M. The photos are as frank as I allowed myself, because my poems are no less frank. This book is myself: beautiful and terrible, ugly in states and divine. This is my variety of life, the search for adrenaline.
Some criticize your poetry. Yes, and "Via Gro" many people consider as stupid beauties. Does it hurt you?
N.M. I do not care what they call me. People should not be judged, and even more offended and something to prove to someone. And I'm very interested in many. So what? I'm not trying to please. In the book there are such lines: And in a pause over personal admiration you will not notice my leaving; I look in the mirror with contempt and think what kind of a freak you are. You often had to think so? When I wrote this poem, I did not represent a specific man, although such exactly live in this world. I'm not "squeamish" by men, I treat everyone with attention, because even scum are not without reason become scum. But personally I have a very high bar to admit to my life a man, and this in no way depends on material wealth. Those women who are afraid of themselves admit this allow themselves, and I was no exception.
Your heart is not free?
N.M. My heart is free forever. It is flooded with love, inflames and believes in miracles. But I like spending time alone, devoting myself to the birth of different ideas, to embody them. And I'm not deprived of interesting people.
What is it, your man? A wise, comprehensively developed person with a rich inner world.
N.M. I'm not talking about the perfectly pure manifestations of these qualities, but the potential is important.
You once said that you will never marry ... Explain, please.
N.M. Marriage is artificial. If you truly love someone, trust him, if you are the reasonable creatures of God, then you do not need intermediaries. Is it necessary to change in relations, to adapt to another person? You can all allow yourself, in the literal sense of everything. It is important only whether there will be benefit to this two halves, whether you will cause damage or pain. You can try to find a compromise, but is it necessary, if you do not want to hear? With love in the heart, in the positive, you can forgive a lot and allow a lot, everyone after all goes their own way of inner growth. Someone decides for himself that it is easier for him to play by the rules of another. And often it happens that the person who met on our way is the impetus to go further, but alone. Before there is a man, there are a lot of fellow travelers.
How do you think - who should earn money in the family?
N.M. Personally, I, of course, must earn. I have no one to rely on, and besides, I feel so much more comfortable. I'm not dependent on anyone, I do not owe anything to anyone. I can not be controlled, I'm too self-willed.
Do you like to do housework, create coziness, wake up in the kitchen?
N.M. No, only for the elect.
Probably spoil the deliciousness of Igor's seven-year-old son. Tell us about it.
N.M. He goes to the second class, to a private school with a French bias. If I'm away, the son is with my mom or with the nanny. Igor is a very interesting child, he is kind, cheerful, grateful, sensitive. I feel we will become great friends.
How would you like to raise him?
N.M. I want him to learn to appreciate every moment of life. Everything is so unsteady and fleeting. So that he would not be disappointed under any circumstances, he respected women, valued and loved them, gave everything and did not regret anything, but he soberly looked at the female cunning trap. And he met the one the Lord created for him.
What is happiness in your understanding?
N.M. First of all, it is a state of joy flowing over the edge. We help each other become happy. After all, and the casual passer-by can be made happy, smiling sincerely, with love.
When you're happy, like the universe has settled inside of you, and you share particles?
N.M. Happiness needs to be sprayed, to share it.
You probably will not spend your whole life singing in "Via Gra" - youth is not eternal. What would you like to do after the Via Gra? Work? Live on the islands? Grow cabbage, as the Roman emperor did, abandoning the throne?
N.M. Youth is eternal! Maybe you will grow cabbage, and I, perhaps, will do what I do best - create. And if not in "Via Gra", then in solo swimming. Thanks to the ideas that are born in me, to people who help to discover themselves in something new, their recklessness, in the end, every time I open myself again and again. And what will I do tomorrow, only He knows.