Even in my mother's tummy, the child listened to adult speech. Did he understand a lot? Initially, I was guided only by intonation, tempo, timbre and emotional coloring. After birth, I learned to isolate some words.
Those that my mother repeats most often. He listened to the speech of close people, watched their communication. And then he opened his mouth and tried to say something. It was evident that the baby was trying very hard. The next attempt to figure out how the mother or father utters sounds is tactile. A crumb pulls handles to your lips, when you talk to him, puts your fingers in your mouth while you sing a lullaby. And something clears up ...
Let's talk, potarahtim
About three months the youngster finds out that he has wonderful hands at his disposal. They can be shoved into your mouth and sucked, they can touch the toy hanging in front of your eyes and, of course, touch your mother. So small develops a large motor skills: mahi, rotation. Right now he is trying to lean on the pens. Well, the toy takes two hands or holds in the palm of the one that you put. Unexpected discovery: if you wave your hand, the rattle funny. In parallel, in the same period, the baby begins to say "aga" and "abu". He is already deliberately inclined to communicate. The karapuz tries to coordinate movements by hands and at the same time the first syllables appear in his vocabulary: "ma-ma-ma", "ba-ba-ba". Yes, these are not yet words. But the crumbs well connect the letters, sing them. Sometimes, it seems as if he is speaking a foreign language. Preparation of the young speaker goes the right way, go on!
Comprehensive approach
The ability to sit opens big horizons for the kid. Now both hands are free and they can be manipulated as you want. Take and throw, build and destroy, string and sprinkle. Whatever game the child has thought up, support it. Still your task is to prepare as much as possible didactic material for crumbs.
• String on the rope large beads, large buttons. Let the karapuz pick these rosary beads. Introduce it to the designer and sorter.
• Purchase multifunctional lacing, with velcro and buttons. Show how to push the lace into the hole and attach the small part to the base. I want to button and unbutton buttons, and then - buttons. Lightning, too, will carry away the baby, only use a plastic one.
• It is useful and a set for creativity. The child will be pleased to master the finger paints, pick up pencils or markers (take on water, they are easily washed off clothes and washed off any surface). Of course, any action that you perform with the carapace, you need to comment, accompany an exciting story and thereby replenish his vocabulary. Still passive. Do you want him to become active? Ask the crumb to ask and answer. Saves the fact that the little one is small and is close to the ground. Even with a strong takeoff, the impact is minimal. But until the kid learns to stand firmly on his feet, it is better to walk in the park along the trampled paths, and not along the asphalt paths. And also teach the crumb to slow down and do not run too far.
Support and release
Walking with the whole family is a real pleasure. When in one hand my mother's hand, and in the other - Daddy, you feel behind your wings. In a literal sense. Because you can press your knees and fly over the edge or puddle or even soar high, and then gently land. Great? Not that word! But even if you go for a hand with someone one of the parents, this support is very helpful. Stumbled? My mother held it. Could not get up on the step? Dad picked up and moved where he should. Of course, adults have a hard time. You constantly bend down, you walk in a half-bent state. Towards evening, my back aches and my back aches. "Maybe buy reins?" - you think. It's not worth it. Please, just a little patience, just a couple of weeks. The legs of the baby get stronger, and he will stop falling often. But before that no one will limit his ability, constantly pull back and hold. Well, in order not to get tired, let the crumb run independently. Just remember: no noisy trails nearby, dangerous roads or pits and ravines. A kid should not hear from you endlessly: "Stop!", "You can not go there!", "It's dangerous!" Is this how an independent person develops? True, you do not sit like you used to do with a book at the wheelchair, in which the baby sleeps. Have to run. However, believe me, this is fun, and for maintaining good physical shape it is useful.
Play it all!
Sociologists have unveiled a disappointing fact: modern parents spend too little time with children, and play with them and even less. Dad is tired at work, my mother is only late in the evening finishing business around the house ... What does the karapuz see? Do you really want him not to get in the way, take care of himself, do not make noise? .. And only ?! Checked by many parents: the main thing is to start, then all are drawn in. What is worth with a one-year-old baby quickly and quickly run up to the hill? For the handle or for distillation. And then rush headlong towards the pope, who returns from work ... We do not even doubt that his father's mood will fly to the skies, fatigue will be removed by hand and he will turn into a plane in a matter of seconds, which will carry the young passenger to a distant distance. Or will he throw his little paratrooper high above his head? Tickles, kvach, somersaults and comic struggle - the child will not give up anything. For some reason it is believed that noisy and gambling on the dad, and my mother provides a quiet pastime. Down with stereotypes? Admit it, you really want to be foolish and feel like a mischievous little girl? So do it! Just disappear the excuse to reproach the baby with phrases: "Girls do not do that!" Or "You're a man, so ugly." After all, they do not bring up, but only harm.
Noisy crowd
How does the karapuz play on the playground? Immediately finds friends or sits on the sidelines? And in either case you will need your participation. In the first, it will not hurt to combine the collective into a common game, otherwise everyone will immediately quarrel or begin to divide the sovochki and molds. In the second and even more so, you are obliged to provide communication between your humble and a horde of sorceresses. How to do it? Offer simple fun, with pleasure will catch up. However, not one after another. Say, for a ball or a typewriter. You run, and they follow. The game is suitable for smaller children who have recently mastered crawling. Provided that all parents allow them to move on all fours on the grass or sand. Give someone his doll or a bear, even for a minute, is unacceptable for them. Well, have fun without toys. We run after each other, the child consciously plays kwacha. To catch up with a friend and slap him on the shoulder, and then substitute his own - here it is, joy. To make it clearer who the kvach is, you can stick a sticker on your clothes. Do not forget that you will not be able to rest. Even the most interesting game will take a crumb except for 15-20 minutes. And then you'll have to think of something again. I'm sure you can do it! Because she has already entered into the taste. And maybe, you will join?
Cheerful hit parade
Games for kids are huge. The main thing is not to be lazy to cheer on the crumbs, try to interest him and turn into a ringleader and an inventor. Delight on the face of the youngster and his fervent laughter will confirm that you are on the right path.
"Bubble"
For the game you will need a bottle with soap bubbles. You blow, and a child or a company of caraposes try to burst balls with palms. Who will catch up with more colored balls? You can appoint a presenter who will stand on the bench and blow. But do not give a bottle of liquid to a crumb in your hands. Will shed in a matter of seconds. Everyone will be hurt. Well, please, change leaders often - everyone wants to blow.
«The rope»
Favorite teddy bear and thread reel - with such a seemingly simple belongings do not get bored. So, the naughty cub ran away into the forest. It's good that a rope was tied to it (prepare a mess around the trees in advance). So, the animal can be found. Let the baby wind the thread on the reel (training small and large motor skills) and follow the teddy bear. That will be fun when he finds his loss!
"Air balloons"
A bunch of balls is not only an excellent way to fly to the sky. You can have fun with them. Organize the baton: who will catch up with the flying ball? Or who is faster to burst it, sitting on horseback? From bright weightless balls it is not difficult to add a flower or make a bunny, play in a knockout or punch a ball (tie the elastic to the tail). Even with the burst, you can have fun (just like Eeyore from the cartoon about Winnie the Pooh).
With hares do not get bored!
Psychologists distinguish a long-eared fluff, as the best children's collective image. The child is easiest to draw a parallel between himself and the bunny. The tale of the most courageous for more than one generation helped to fight with self-doubt, and the story of four little sons and daddy's daughter teaches caution to this day. Your baby, just like a rabbit, is ready to chew carrots so that the teeth are strong and beautiful. Of course, the bunny is also a real friend in many games. It's so funny that you do not have to miss it. A new friend is ready to surprise every day!
• Funny interactive toy "For me, Baths!" Will give the kid a lot of fun. To begin with, you need to wear a cute carrot bracelet. Wherever the child goes, the bunny Bani will follow him, catching the infrared signal of the bracelet. Did your scoundrel run too far? Long-eared stops and calls him by name (the name of the baby can be written in the memory of the toy). Having found the child, Bani asks him to kiss. Excellent reward for playing catch-up or hide-and-seek!
• Children love to copy adults. Since Mom and Dad spend so much time with the phone, they want the same. Moreover, the most modern model is the bright interactive phone Banifon. The toy screen has a mirror surface, so the kid can see his own reflection. When the phone turns on, a cheerful Bunny rabbit appears on his screen, which you can easily communicate with. Clicking on the buttons with images of animals, the little one learns their names, and also hears phrases and funny melodies. I want to hear my mother, but she is at work? The recording function allows parents to leave a sound message for the baby.
• We invite you on a trip from Bani. You press the button - and the machine goes, cool swaying, flashing lights and signaling. When a collision with an obstacle is triggered by a catapult that throws the bunny from the cockpit. Fun!