Sex with a friend: the pros and cons

It is widely believed that there can be no friendship between a woman and a man in pure form and, in one way or another, everything will be reduced to sex. It is impossible to say whether this is true or not, but it is known that in fact, friendly sex is a phenomenon that can not be called rare. And it is quite understandable - physiological craving is very strong and can lead to the fact that people include in the sphere of excellent friendly relations also an intimate area. In addition, for a woman who wants sex, intimacy with a best friend, in the absence of a permanent partner, is almost an ideal option. Most people are tormented by only one question - what will become of their friendship in this case and will the relations between them be irretrievably ruined?

Sex with a friend: the pros

One of the most significant advantages of friendly sex is simplicity and relaxedness in such relationships, if both partners realize that their affinity does not oblige to anything. They sleep with each other only if they are obsessed with this and only so that everyone enjoys it. Sexual meetings are held without tension, without any restrictions and pressure, without requiring any kind of love feelings. That is, in simple terms, friendly sex is not something like mutual use, and only that.

Also, from the standard sex, the friendly has a number of differences. First of all, there is no stage of flirting, as well as fears that the intimate will go as much as it wants from both men and women, because they know each other very well. They feel completely free and easy, can afford any behavior they want, without caring about, to enjoy or show themselves in better than they are. Even if there are any problems in the process, the partners can still maintain friendly relations and can even later ironically discuss together the failed attempt at an intimate rapprochement.

However, such a situation is possible only under the conditions that they behave openly and honestly towards each other. None of them should secretly hope that their relationship after the intimacy will develop into a more close stage. If a man or woman (especially women) has, even the smallest and unconscious, a hope for something more serious than just friendship, then most likely after sex, friendship will be lost forever. As statistics show, after an intimate relationship a man for his girlfriend often does not become either a lover or, especially, a husband. And if in such a situation, after sexual intercourse, the girl tries to pretend to some other role, except for the role of a friend, a man will most likely just disappear from her life. That is why it is important for all girls and women to remember that sex can not prevent friendship only and exclusively if they want to satisfy sexual desire, and no more. Otherwise, there is a significant risk of simply losing a friend.

Sex with a friend: cons

The main disadvantage of friendly sex is that in many cases one of the partners starts to get too attached to another, gradually coming to the idea that he wants something more than just friendship, and if his intention from the other is not answered, then he begins to take offense to compete.

Over time, such balancing on the verge of friendship and love most of all, of course, leads to the destruction of friendly relations and, as already mentioned above, to a complete rift between a man and a woman. It is sad to recognize this, however, in most cases the result of sex for friendship is exactly this. Physical proximity in this case simply does not leave room for spiritual, it is already impossible to turn the former state of affairs.

Another, quite serious lack of friendly sex is a possible negative impact on future relationships with beloved ones. For example, if a guy finds out that she used to sleep with her friend, even if he does not abandon her, he will most likely lose some respect for it will still be more or less jealous of all her friends, co-workers, and so on. Similarly, it is unlikely that a woman will trust a man fully if she learns that he slept with his beautiful girlfriend.