It would seem that we perfectly know what men like in sex. Well, there, fishnet stockings, shoes with heels, beautiful underwear ... But that's not all! There is a funny theory, according to which men in the bedroom behave either as botanists or as hooligans. The first hesitate to voice their desires - they say, upbringing does not allow (botany is really often found among intellectuals). They are slightly clamped and do not mind when a woman takes the initiative. The latter, on the contrary, are active, sometimes even snobbish, express their preferences directly.
If the partner is from "hooligans", you already know what to do: he certainly gave detailed instructions. But if from the "botanists", you will have to break your head or orient yourself to the data of opinion polls, according to which you can at least somehow understand what our men like. Namely?
Morning Sex
Men's opinion: love with a warm sleeping partner is a special pleasure.
Did you notice that the chosen one wakes up with an excellent erection? Perhaps this is just a desire to go to the toilet: a full bladder presses on the erectile nerves. But most often it's about sexual arousal. Chronobiologists say that at 7am the activity of male hormones is above the norm by 20%, and at 9am - by 50%. So you should not deny the chosen one in the vicinity, even if you have not yet fully woken up.
Readiness for intimacy
Men's opinion: everyone will envy me, my woman wants me always and everywhere.
Men love women who are active not only in everyday life and career, but also in bed. Therefore, remember the old saying that a lady should be a queen at a party, a mistress in the kitchen and a prostitute in bed. And not only in bed. American researchers interviewed 1,500 men and identified the most attractive places for sex: a bath or shower (82% of respondents), a car (80%), a pool (54%), a kitchen table (48%), a fitting room and a city park (42%) .
Indecent camera angles
Men's opinion: the sexual emancipation of women, her readiness for experiments is very exciting! Women are prone to shyness, so many "decadent" poses are not solved by many: "I will decide that I am dissolved." Many, however, are afraid of frank postures for another reason: "He will see my cellulite and the folds on my stomach." So, remember: at the time of passion a man wants a beloved woman all - completely and completely, together with folds and cellulite. Moreover, he does not see them (unless, of course, he is not being told about them persistently). In addition, who said that all men like thin? The fashion standard of beauty 90x60x90 psychologists consider the imposed motivation: advertising claims that it is beautiful, but nature still pushes men into the embrace of a woman fit for childbirth: with wide hips, full chest and narrow waist. So complex because of the plump figure is not worth it.
The grooming of the partner
Men's opinion: if a woman cares for herself, then she will always be on top, and in a year, and in 10 years.
They do not mean silicone lips and botox forehead, but much simpler things: fresh beautiful underwear, perfectly polished legs, healthy and clean hair, good and neat manicure (and pedicure, by the way, too). From the point of view of men, even the ugly woman, if she watches herself, looks sexy. If a woman is not only well-groomed, but also beautiful, this excites doubly: literally deprives men of reason. Canadian scientists conducted an amusing study: showed a group of men pictures of beautiful women, and then offered 15 dollars now or 75 in 2 days. Most of the subjects chose the first option, which proves men's inability to reason with reason when hormones interfere in the matter.
Coquetry
Men's opinion: female coquetry is the best way to save an established relationship from boredom.
If at the stage of courtship ladies with might and main use this weapon, then having received a stamp in their passport, they completely forget about flirting. Say, why nonsense, I better feed borscht. So, the way to the heart and other parts of the body is better for a man to look not through the stomach, but through coquetry. Polls show that deeply married men are chronically short. When the wife tries to seduce them with gestures, playful phrases, sly glances, they are flattered and quickly leads to a state of sexual alertness.
Sex Games
Men's opinion: any, even the most wonderful sex sooner or later loses its originality. Well, if a woman is ready for sex games.
Men think of women having sex. And in dreams go far. In fantasy, they are ready to change partners and take part in orgies, and sex in the toilet of the restaurant, the plane - in general one of the favorite subjects. However, not all fantasies of men are ready to realize. Yes, it's not necessary: the sexologist believes that if all erotic thoughts were realized, the sensations would be less bright than expected. But why not implement the most innocent ones? For example, every fourth man wants to try sex toys, whether it's dildos or penis attachments. And every second role-playing game. It's good to call a partner for a frank conversation and just find out what he dreams about. Silent or joking? Suggest the game "Do me what you want". Or let him draw his favorite fantasy - many of this is easier than voicing.
A little body
Men's opinion: nude excites by default, but how many secrets are hidden properly!
Of course, a naked female body excites men. But we know for sure: the effect of semi-obnoxiousness is much stronger, because it leaves room for imagination, although not every man decides to ask his partner not to remove his blouse, jacket or boots (for example, the botanist will not be solved exactly). Therefore, it is not always necessary to rush off all clothes hastily and passionately, it's better to be naked slowly and in parts. And tease even outside the bedroom. Mini skirts and tight-fitting turtlenecks will not lead as much as a "casual" flared sweatshirt, a V-neck blouse from which the chest or long skirt with a slit peeps out.
Oral caresses
Men's opinion: oral caresses sometimes bring more pleasure than sex itself.
All men love when a woman does ... Well, you understand. All because the sensations of oral and vaginal sex are completely different. At vaginal contact the man most often performs the basic work. The longer it works, the more tired, resulting in an orgasm becomes less vivid. When a partner "conjures" a partner, he can relax and concentrate on his own feelings, which greatly strengthens these very sensations. In addition, he gets a special pleasure from what he feels at such moments as the master of the situation. So pote his pride! And he will love you even more. A little trick: men are terribly wound up when a partner herself is excited when she does a blowjob, thus showing that touching his "dearest" is not katorga, but pleasure.
What men expect from sex in ...
25-30 years old
Although sexologists also argue that the peak of male desire is 18-20 years, 30-year-olds in the bedroom are also oh-th-go and easily give a head start to young and early.
30-35 years old
Sex wants a little less often, the strength goes into work. Some, however, are trying to cheer up the campaign to the left.
35-45 years old
Sex is important, but I want to get from the partner not only passion, but also care, support, attention.
45-55 years
Dangerous age: the male force weakens, and gentlemen in any way try to return it.