Sex with a new partner: when?

Perhaps all women are concerned about the question: when is it worth starting an intimate relationship with a new partner - is it appropriate on the first date or do you need to wait a couple of months? We have learned the male opinion about this rhetorical question.

There are two opposing opinions. The first says that the faster a woman sleeps with a man, the less their relationship will last. And the second contradicts: if it's real feelings, then why delay with sex?

The question is whether to sleep on a first date, and generally when you need to start having sex with a new partner, becomes especially relevant when you realize that you have a strong attraction for each other. The fine line between simple relationships and intimate relationships is easy to cross, but that's what will happen after that - it's not always clear.


When people start to meet with each other, they always know what they are counting on. When one of the partners begins to say "I do not know, let's see what will come of it", he is probably cunning or afraid to frighten off that fragile feeling, which is so easy to destroy even with a fleeting word, and not just that with sex.

According to sociological research, a third of women at least once had sex on a first date, but half of them regret it. However, if a woman refuses to have sex on her first date, then the probability that a man will go with her on a second date is 50x50.

The author of these lines conducted a small survey among his familiar women and found out when they started having sex with their knights and what it usually ended up with.

So let's talk about what to expect a woman if she sleeps with a man on the first date, after 1 week, 2 weeks, 1 month, 2 months, 3 months or more.


First date


As they say, right off the bat. Or from the ship to the ball. People who make love on the first date, do not just love sex, but also are confident in themselves and that they will not disappoint each other.

Such love and confidence can only testify to two things. Or that there will be no further relationship and this is only a "one-night-partner", or a hurricane passion, which, however, will pass as quickly as it began.

But marriage is possible. Especially if a woman unintentionally gets pregnant. If the marriage happens and for some other, truly amazing reason, then it will not last long.


1 Week


The term is quite decent. During this time, you can meet 2-4 times, get to know each other, assess your level of feelings.

However, all the same, the chances that the relationship will reach the registry office, is not enough. Approximately 20%.

Basically, sex in a week is the beginning of a short-lived novel based on all the same sex. This is a good training before a really serious relationship.


2 weeks


A good start for a long and serious relationship. 100% no guarantee, but at least 50% can be given.

If a woman (and a man) is unsophisticated in sexual terms, then two weeks is just a good time to seriously think about what it is, perhaps the person you need.


1 month


A month later, in 80% of cases, women themselves provoke sex.

They want to show men how good they are in bed, and at the same time thank you for what the partner has been waiting for this moment for so long.

One month of abstinence characterizes the beginning of a serious relationship. Partners already know each other well and realize the importance of relations.

Behind the check for sex: you learned whether a man can do without sex for a while, whether or not you are interested in him as a person.

That is, about 1 month waiting for incredulous women. And if after the relationship the relations bloom and go to an even higher level, you can give 70% guarantee that they will end with a wedding.


2 months


It is difficult to imagine a man who would not give up or at least not change a woman, if during this time he is left without sex.

This can only indicate that he is deeply in love and ready to wait as long as he likes.


From three months


This couple is romantic. Sex is not so important as friendship, feelings, relationships, small details and small holidays. They, no matter how loud it sounds, are made for each other.

Of course, the likelihood of a break in relations is high, if there is not so much time for intimacy, but if the partners wait for the necessary period, in the future they will only be rewarded.

Of course, in one case out of 20 a man can sleep and after six months of meetings, and then immediately throw a woman.

This is typical for male hunters, who are disappointed, "getting their own", but in the process of achieving the cherished goal they are capable of practically everything.

In general, it all depends on how you feel about sex. If you just love the process and do not experience moral suffering because your partner got sex and disappeared, then you will hardly suffer and cry.

If for you sex - too intimate and important area of ​​human relations, it is better not to try to break yourself from the very beginning and try to "treat everything easier" - you can not change yourself.

Although, if it's love, then what's the difference, where did you start?

At the end of the article, I would like to make important notes. First, no one says that these figures should be taken as the ultimate truth.

Also, this does not apply to people who have not had sex before (the first sex in life deserves a separate article).

Third, of course, not only does the sex factor affect the duration of the relationship.

But at the same time, no one will deny that it is important. Just think about what you expect from a relationship, before you go to bed.

All the same, although in the yard and the XXI century, sex is not the same as dinner. In the end, even before dinner, we always look at the clock, wondering if it is worth dinning at such an early (or later) time.



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