What are women afraid of in bed?

American experts compiled a list of fears leading women to abandon sexual contacts. Even if sex takes place, he, in the presence of such fears, does not give the woman any pleasure. With them, they assure sexologists, it is quite possible to cope. However, to do it better together with the partner, and not staying with one's phobias one on one.

1. She considers herself complete


Surprisingly, this fear is in the first place among the reasons for the rejection of sex in women. In addition, even a fleeting sense of completeness after a meal can be sufficient to deny a partner in the vicinity. Even worse is the case, if the discomfort from the perception of his figure, the woman experiences within himself constantly.


The tragedy is that it is in cases of loss of physical form (for example, after childbirth) that the woman most needs active sex life. Here much will depend on the father of the sexual partner who will have to convince the beloved that she still causes his sexual desire.


2. Do not have a problem with the stomach


Most of all, the woman suffers a situation when she is tormented by gases. Here, the most usual shyness causes the partner to refuse sex. A woman is simply afraid that she can not control her body during sexual intercourse. This happens usually between partners who started their relationship not very long ago. Spouses will make such little things no longer frighten.


3. At neyachalis monthly


Some partners quite quietly have sex, even in a period that is not very pleasant for a woman. However, according to the women themselves, they almost always do this to please their partner, so as not to offend, not to be deprived of intimacy. The man, what is proved, is experiencing a much greater drive for women these days. This is a natural reaction to the hormones produced by a woman during menstruation. She becomes more attractive and desirable, although she herself does not have sex for this period.


She pretends that she will be very hurt, and the very thought of penetrating her, like a closed bleeding wound, discourages the desire of sex completely. True, doctors confirm that (with all hygiene rules), sex during the month is even useful for a woman. The muscles of the uterus shrink faster, speeding up the flow of contents. Monthly passes faster and painlessly.


4. She wears unfashionable panties


Not all-women wear thong every day. This is quite inconvenient and even contraindicated. If a woman prepares to see ahead of time, she, of course, will wear sexy underwear. But if zhelanieksa finds partners unawares, then ordinary unfashionable panties can become a cause of fear for a woman: "But suddenly he will see what I walk in, and will not want or will stop loving me."


In fact, scientists have not yet come to a common opinion about the effect of strings on the spread of vaginal infections. However, many doctors around the world are sounding the alarm because of the increased incidence of such diseases among women who regularly wear thongs. In some countries, even going to prohibit their sale.


5. She has a vaginal crucifix


In this, in principle, there is nothing terrible. Millions of fungi are constantly living on our body, but the infection begins to develop only if a certain fungal balance is violated. If a woman has a disorder, you just need to be treated. Often, it is enough to drink a pill just a couple of days. The only inconvenience is that the treatment is necessary to go through and constantly a woman's sexual partner. This is what frightens, forcing the fungus carrier to abandon sex altogether. This is not only pointless, but also unfair to the partner. He must necessarily admit that he could also undergo a course of treatment and exclude all possible risks.


6. She sweats and feels dirty


Sometimes the woman can not get rid of the thought that she disgustingly smells, her skin is sticky and unpleasant to touch. The best way out of such fears - a joint acceptance of the soul, including all sorts of caresses and sexual games. In addition, some women only under the shower can make a man blowjob, without feeling disgusted.


7. A condom partner has a condom


This is very strong and quite justified fear of so many women. In the end, in a jaypot pay for unplanned pregnancy with your health. Therefore, the only way out is to pause and go for a condom. Or reschedulise next time.


8. Somewhere alongside


Presence of the relatives nearby can repulse a woman (and men too) to have sex. Even an adult woman becomes an internal teenager at the very thought that her parents will find her having sex with a man. Approximately the same way, the woman's sexual desire is also affected by the presence of children in the next room.


9. She does not have lubricant


Lack of excretion of the lubricant in the perineum often causes a woman to refuse sex. It discomforts even if there is a sexual inclination. Fortunately, the problem of such a city is easily removable. Today in a regular pharmacy you can buy various intimate dressings with any taste, smell or even without them.


10 She just got tired


The woman seemed to be so tired that she was not interested in anything any more. In fact, sex is the best way to combat fatigue. Many women experience self-reliant sexual satisfaction precisely with fatigue. The general relaxation of the organism only increases sensuality. So, at least, say experts.


11. She was only once


Upon reaching the orgasm, a woman sometimes does not want to continue. A partner can only competently act to wake her, that this is not the limit. Sexologists say that the female body can survive several orgasms in a row.


12. She does not want to rush


Women usually do not like to immediately move to sex. They need foreplay, afraid to start copulating too soon. A woman needs to tune in to sex, discard all the restraining complexes. Consolation for a man can only be that the subsequent sex will be more sweet.


13. She does not like the smell of a partner


Fear of feeling the natural smells of a male body during a love affair sometimes scares off women. It takes a shower before sex. True, you need to consider that this possibility will not always be.


14. She is afraid of the sex before the wedding.


Virgins sometimes give up sex, forcing their partner to marry them. There is a tradition in the family and the upbringing of a woman. Is it worth it to play a candle?


15. He claims to confess his pregnancy


Often a woman does not want sex, because she became pregnant. She is afraid of the partner's reaction, she is afraid of harming herself and the child during coitus, she is afraid that the man will abandon her when she learns of pregnancy. Sooner or later, the situation is resolved in one way or another, and much depends on the man.