Sexual development and upbringing of the child is multifaceted in the whole process of education for every caring parent! We can assume that if it turned out well with him to understand, then parents know a lot about upbringing and will necessarily grow a wonderful person! It is necessary to believe Freud that sexual attraction is the leading in human life and it depends on how the sexual development of a child or adolescent develops, and how the future personality will behave in society.
Where to begin?
Immediately it is better to drop tales of storks, cabbage and other similar myths of our ancestors. It is to be hoped that no one now thinks about it. Do not torment your child with stories about a special store where you can buy children - the child will ask you to go there to this store and buy a brother for him or a sister.
Dislike and fear of the opposite sex is the first sign that when he was a child with a child, they did not properly talk about such topics, and he used to think that the relationship between the sexes is something forbidden, embarrassing, and therefore contrary to the person. It is not necessary to repeat the mistakes of our less resourceful fellow parents in the sexual development of the child! After all, some problems can develop due to ignorance of parents how to talk with their child.
The consequences of "fairy tales" of parents
It can also happen that a girl or boy who, from childhood, was inspired by the fact that sex is bad, was forbidden to talk about it when he grows up, just leaves "off the reels" and can become a sexual vampire. It is worth believing, to hold back your sexual energy for a long time is very difficult for a person who does not differ from other people who grow up, will face changes in physiology and will witness, for example, such relations of friends.
If the child learns everything only from the stories of peers, then he too will have the wrong and very wrong opinion about sex and sexual relationships. Children are pretty naive and simple. They just copy adults and sometimes they only have sex with them as a form of enjoyment. After all, no one wants a child to take from them vulgarity and cynicism? Sex should be perceived as part of love and the child should immediately understand it. Then he will have the right idea about the relationship between the sexes, in the future he will be able to properly and adequately assess his partner.
Actions
To begin with, you should not avoid talking about topics such as the child's sexual development. We must understand that for the baby there is no difference between questions about the moon, animals and sexes! They are just curious! And every curiosity needs to be rewarded! There is an option that if you hear the answer that is right for him, he will not ask questions on this topic any more! If conversations are avoided, his interest will only be heated.
To speak it is necessary ONLY in essence and only available words. Do not quote textbooks on anatomy! Do not dismiss the words "still small, grow up - you will understand"!
Do not show internal tension - the attitude of parents to such issues should be smooth and calm. And you do not need to drive yourself into the head of the idea that such conversations are a sin. After all, it's strange, if a child does not care about such questions, it can be a signal about violations in the development of the psyche.
Summing up
You do not need to switch erotic scenes to movies, explaining it with the words "well, debauchery!" It's just better to say that the film seemed uninteresting to you, if you can not stand it. And the best way out - somehow cleverly, but not jokingly, make a comment on the situation, based on the plot of the film. After all, constantly the TV will not begin to switch and sooner or later the child will still see such scenes himself.
The result - if the parents themselves have complexes with respect to sexual relations, they should not be transferred to the child. Everything is fine in moderation. Prohibitions have not brought anyone to the good!
So it is necessary to think about how and when to start sex education of a child. And it's possible to start thinking about it even when the baby is just getting ready for birth, because when puberty begins, it may be too late.