Peak of pleasure
According to sexologists, only 7 women out of 10 get an orgasm. Factors of pleasure for a person that affect sexuality can be divided into two groups: obvious and incredible. The obvious are the degree of fatigue, the sexual temperament - it is known to be strong, medium and weak, - the state of health, the atmosphere in the family. It is also known that female sexual activity depends on the time of the day and the menstrual cycle. In the morning she sleeps, wakes up in the evening. The peak of sexuality, with both "gray mice" and "female vamp", falls on the middle of the menstrual cycle.
Some get special pleasure 2-3 days before the onset of critical days and during menstruation.
Incredible factors, at first glance, with an intimate life are not connected at all - for example, what kind of a child are you in the family! American sexologists say that first-borns usually do not shine with a violent sexual temperament, because they are aimed at a career. They are too purposeful and industrious to be distracted by all sorts of nonsense such as sex games. What can you not say about younger children: they are less likely to become workaholics, their hobby is sensuality and emotionality, because they have been the universal favorites since childhood, who were constantly hugged and kissed. After all, parental affection is very important for the normal development of sexuality.
A number of specialists discover the relationship between sexuality and the blood group. In their opinion, the strongest sexual temperament in people with the I blood group: they are prone to fervent erotic fantasies and the desire to immediately implement them. Carriers of the IV group of blood are also passionate natures: they give themselves to emotions rather than reason.
Sexuality is a pleasure factor for a person who has a third blood group. This type of person reaches unprecedented heights, if a sensitive partner is considered with his romanticism and vulnerability. But those who have the II group of blood, diligently embody in the bedroom their theoretical knowledge about sex, but sometimes without a soul. Their sexuality is often constrained by complexes: "Honest ladies of this never do!"
Researchers from the University of Melbourne found that sexuality in many ways depends on ... the size of the area of the brain responsible for sexual arousal.
All in your hands
However, many scientists consider the influence of the blood group and brain sites on sexual life to be clearly exaggerated. You can change much for your own sexuality for the better. Does the husband want "this" only in the morning? Transfer sex for the best time of day for you. Do you consider yourself fat, frigid? By the way, most often they think about themselves, those parents who from childhood inspired disgust for sex. Address to the sexologist, he will help to change the negative attitude or relation to an intim.
And try again ...
1.Take an audit of your own wardrobe. Sexuality is inconceivable without awareness of one's sex. Long live the womanhood! Down with shapeless jeans and boyish jackets. Wear dresses, high heels, ornate jewelry. Men are terribly old-fashioned and want to see us as Turgenev ladies, not asexual beings in the style of unisex.
2. Periodically "forget" to wear underwear - it will turn your head not only to the man, but ... to yourself. The awareness that you are dressed "indecently" will excite your sensuality. Yes, and pheromone substances, attractive to the stronger sex - it will be easier to get out from under the skirt.
3. Enroll in the gym - physical activity improves mood, makes us more energetic and active, including in bed. But training should not be exhausting: a tired body will only reduce sexual activity.
4. Learn the technique of conscious touches. You will not touch the partner, but ... to yourself. Take a piece of silk, velvet, pompom from the scarf, a piece of ice - the more the props, the better - and alternately touch them to the skin. Concentrate on the touch, drive away the thoughts from the series: "Soon the son will return from school, you need to heat up his soup" or "What I'm doing here - in the bathroom is a mountain of non-washed laundry." Petting should be gentle and slow. Feel every inch of your body.
A few exercises - and you will be surprised to find that you have full erogenous zones, and in different places: at the elbow bend, behind the ear, at the neck ... It is not necessary to get yourself to orgasm, it is important to learn to concentrate on your feelings. And if discharge comes - fine! After all, sexuality is the ability to enjoy any sensual caresses.