Consciousness captures in memory the most vivid type, and to each man on the path of life two extremes of women were inevitably met: they can be called in every way: an eternal wife and eternal mistress, a fatal woman and a reliable rear, "mother" and "prostitute," as defined by them Otto Weininger, who at the beginning of the century published a scandalous book "Sex and Character", which still provokes a heated debate.
It is not necessary that every woman belongs to a type or eternal wife, or eternal mistress.
Why so little? Even the woman who successfully combines both, though a little, but tends slightly closer to one of these poles. Not to mention the brightest representatives.
EXTREMITY AS A LIFESTYLE
Somehow a warm summer evening at a dacha a young journalist gathered a company of respectable youth. Young intellectual girls were dressed in modest jeans and T-shirts, but an experienced look would immediately determine that the cost of things is far behind the most "chic" dresses from clothing markets. Young people, trying not to lag behind the girls in the refinement of manners, drank moderately and competed in erudition. The chic atmosphere of the picnic was disturbed by the unexpected appearance of the relative of the owner of the dacha. She was 10 years older than the girls present, which in their opinion equated her to the same age as Clara Zetkin. She was wearing fishnet tights, high heels, an ungodly mini and brightly colored lips. While the girls glanced unseen with an expression of unanimous contempt for such incarnate vulgarity, the faces of their thoughtful interlocutors acquired a completely different expression. In the blink of an eye, interrupting the refined conversations about Borges with his girlfriends, they shone with bright eyes around the newly arrived lady, vying to tell ambiguous anecdotes and warming herself up with a glass behind a glass. By morning, it was discovered that the lady had disappeared. Along with her, one of the young people, who could not be found in a day or in a few more days, was missed. When the parents, distraught with excitement, already intended to go to the police, the young man appeared with exorbitant circles under his eyes and with the wasted currency stock. It turned out that they, with the above-described person, undertook an impromptu trip to St. Petersburg with a stop at all the associated restaurants. When, in his defense, the young man declared that he had met a real woman and, probably, married her, it was the parents' turn to rake together all the piles of foreign currency reserves and urgently take the perishing child abroad.
This is one of the most characteristic features of the fate of an eternal lover. Even when one of the most freedom-loving men is going to marry her, there are always circumstances that prevent him from doing it. True, it is not necessary that eternal lovers do not marry. It's just that even when they try to start a family life, they also build it according to the laws of "survival races". If you listen to the story of such a woman called "The Story of My Life is ...", then the spirit captures from the number of broken men's hearts. An inexperienced listener may suspect that all this is invented. Far from it: all is true. Only talking about the knight who for her sake went to waste, it never comes to her mind that this knight is a loader from a nearby store, and all the "waste" was in a stolen box of vodka. In her "herbarium" there is no place for natural selection. Any male attention is taken into account, regardless of who is in front of it: a hot oriental shopping man or a complex scientist. Maybe the most captivating of men is that these women do not treat them critically. Any man for her is an object of flirting on that simple ground that he is a man.
NOMINATION: WIFE
Unlike the eternal mistress, having met on his way a woman, from whom the "feeling of the rear" comes, the man quickly enough decides that she will become his wife. However, with the wedding is delayed. Something stops him, but she waits patiently. It is also clear to her that this man decided to become her husband, and from the moment she realized it, all the other men cease to exist for her. Eternal wife does not give reason to doubt his impeccability. She does not care what her chosen one is doing while she waits for him. The basic feeling inherent in eternal wives is a feeling that, by the wise definition of a song, "raises us from the dawn" - a sense of duty. It is so developed in them that all other feelings are in an atrophied state. Including sexual. They imagine the eroticism in a peculiar way: either as a sense of duty, or as a reward to a man for good behavior. Nevertheless, being married and ignoring this aspect of family life, they tend to dream of a beautiful erotic.