What is anorgasmia?
In fact, this is not a verdict or a terrible defect. A woman can never experience orgasm, but at the same time enjoy sex. Its difference from a woman capable of orgasms, only that she does not get discharged, otherwise there are usually no differences. Frigid women, for example, do not experience sexual attraction in general, which is far from the same with this problem.
The reasons for this deviation can be many. Sometimes the problem is in the psychological state of a woman. For example, during a depression, women are less likely to experience orgasm. Sometimes this is a consequence of diseases of the reproductive system and pelvic organs. Anorgasmia can be temporary, often it is successfully curable, if it is correctly diagnosed and accurately determine the cause of disturbances in the body.
Than faces?
Anorgasmia can be dangerous to health. Of course, the first consequence of this disease, the disorder in the relationship. Often women have to imitate orgasms, and it is always a risk to be convicted of lying or risk of earning a few complexes that will not allow them to come closer to cherished pleasure. If a man learns the truth, not everyone is ready to treat this partner's characteristic with understanding, especially if there is no intimacy in their relationship. But, in addition, anorgasmia, left without treatment, usually means that there are problems with the outflow of blood in the pelvic organs. By itself, it is only a consequence of this problem, because of which there may appear more serious diseases - various myomas, mastopathy, varicose veins, hemorrhoids. Often, treatment aimed at restoring blood flow, solves all problems at once, and it is not at all necessary to sacrifice health or relationships.
How to get rid?
If the cause of anorgasmia is not in physical health, then it is likely that the case is in the psychological condition of the woman. Most likely, a woman can not trust a partner, relax. Sometimes the inability to get an orgasm develops because a woman simply does not know herself, does not understand what her body wants.
In solving such a problem, a man can and should help. The most important thing is to create a comfortable psychological atmosphere. This is facilitated by a good attitude, sincere affection and care, willingness to talk about intimate problems and solve them together. It is worth trying a relaxing massage, various ways of stimulation. Every woman on the body has special zones, which, when stimulated, cause a fashionable stream of sexual arousal. Since women who have difficulty achieving orgasm are not frigid, such excitement is easily achieved by them. The only question is to bring the matter to its logical conclusion.
It is known that orgasm does not come by order, but carefully watching the reactions of the partner to one or another method of stimulation, you can understand that she likes it more. If for a while to stimulate certain points around the clitoris or the vagina, then orgasm will come with a high probability.
Sometimes for anorgazmiyu take the usual dissatisfaction with sex life. For example, a woman likes faster and more passionate sex, she does not like long preludes, and a man considers it his duty to make half-hour caresses every time. In intimate relationships, there should always be a place for spontaneity and frank conversation, it helps to solve many problems.
The lack of orgasm in a woman is considered a reproach to a man. Many women prefer to simulate orgasm, only to not upset the partner. But this absolutely deprives them of the chance to learn the true pleasure of sex. If orgasms remain unattainable, perhaps, it is not worth living in their expectation, because sex is a pleasure from beginning to end. Many are deprived of the opportunity to experience orgasm, but at the same time they receive satisfaction from the process itself. The main thing is not to stigmatize yourself and do not stop there, because experiments sometimes lead to unexpected results, one of which can become a long-awaited orgasm.