Of course, many factors influence the relocation. But in any case, you should never depend on someone else's opinion. If you are not attached to a person who should be cared for and can not take it with you, moving is only your own business and you must decide for yourself what you want to live.
Job
Very often the move to a new place is directly connected with the work. You are offered a higher position, but in order to get it, you need to move to another city. How to act in this case? First, you must decide for yourself what is most important in your life: a career or close people with whom you will now be at a distance. Many say that both are important for them. But in fact, this is not true. Just for some reason a person can not admit to himself and begins to try to keep everything. In fact, there are those who really care about the career. If such a person does not leave, then eventually, he subconsciously begins to experience a negative to those people because of whom he remained. And there is another type of people who first leave, explaining their deed by the fact that they need to earn a lot of money, and in time they begin to simply curse the work, since they are very anxious to get home. Therefore, you must honestly answer yourself, what you want more and guided only by this, and not by prospects, by unhappy glances of the close ones, and so on, whether you need to move or rather still remain in your city.
Love
The second, but rather, the very first and most frequent reason, a dumb woman decide to move is love. A man from another city calls to him and the woman starts to think about moving. If your situation is such, then first of all you have to think about whether you can get there. Of course, love is very good, but on the other hand, one love a man can not make your life happy. Moving to another city, you have to understand that you, besides your boyfriend, will not have a number of relatives and friends. Therefore, if something happens, you simply have nowhere to go. In addition, you may not like the city itself, people, friends of a young man. In general, there are many negative factors that can affect you, so that eventually a love for a guy will turn into a completely opposite feeling. Think about it before you take such a step. If you are a southerner who has become accustomed to constantly walk somewhere and can not stay at home, then you hardly will live well in the northern city, where the winter lasts for ten months and half a year there are such frosts that people do not go outside without much urgency. And if it is also a remote place where there is no internet, and you are a city, then from such a life, hardly anyone will be happy.
Therefore, before you move somewhere, it is best to go to a guy for a while, for example, for a month. This is exactly the optimal time, in which you will have time to understand whether you will be able to settle down in that locality or if love can not even save you from an unacceptable atmosphere. Remember that love is, of course, a wonderful feeling, but on the other hand, it happens to be passing. And if love passes, then you simply will very much regret that so much time was spent in the city, which you disgusting, among people who are unpleasant to you. Therefore, before you go to such sacrifices, try to weigh everything and consider, consider possible variants of events, and only after that make a final decision regarding the move.
Parents
If you are still a young creature whose parents have decided to move to another city, then, of course, there is very little of you dependent on you. But if you understand that you will be unhappy in another city, with a joker with your mom and dad, then try to discuss with them the current situation. Just do not cry, shout and make ultimatums. After all, in this situation you need to convince your parents that you are an adult and intelligent person who can live independently and make well-considered decisions. And the cries and resentments will only remind them that you are still a child who better not leave without supervision. Therefore, in a conversation with parents, use really weighty arguments. Remind them that at this age it's hard for you to become a new student group, and they do not want their daughter to become an outcast. If you are engaged in some circles, do not forget to say this too, reminding your mother and father that a master like your teacher is unlikely to be found anywhere. Explain to them that at your age, it is not always possible to get a new friend and you will suffer if you find yourself alone.
Talk to someone from your relatives to ask if this person is ready to take responsibility for you before your parents. If you have a loving uncle or aunt (grandmother, grandfather) who are really interested in keeping you and will not feel the cargo because of the lack of it, then ask them to talk to their parents. Perhaps an adult person will be easier to convince and persuade them to make the decision that suits you. Remember that you are already an individual, therefore, if you really understand that you will be unhappy, if you change your place of residence, then you must defend your opinions, but not with cries and manipulations, but with arguments and adult actions.
I found my dream city
Another reason for moving is your own desire. It happens that we live in a city in which we were born and always feel ourselves not together, and then we accidentally go to another holiday and understand that he is really proud of himself. If you live right here, then you will definitely be happy. If at you such situation, means it is necessary to go not thinking. The main thing is that the move was a deliberate decision. That is, do not immediately collect things and rush there with a penny in your pocket. First of all, you need to think about where you will live, until you find a home, do you have prospects for work and so on. Before moving, it is desirable to accumulate a large amount of money, so that you can safely experience various force majeure circumstances.
But in any case, even if the move has to be postponed for a while, never give up on this idea. To you do not speak, no matter how persuaded to stay, if you feel happy in that city - go. Believe me, in the modern world you will be able to live where you dream and maintain relationships with those whom you love. Skype and social networks always give you the opportunity to communicate with family and friends at any time of the day. So do not be afraid of moving, if you wish it with all your heart. If you find a place where you want to live - live there and be happy.