Love is an unlimited feeling that affects the hearts of all, regardless of race and citizenship. So you became a victim of unlimited love in the literal sense of the word. Your chosen one is a foreigner. So what should you do to prevent this love from becoming clouded by trouble when you move to the groom forever? And with what difficulties do you have to face?
Your communication has long gone beyond the limits of telephone communication, long night sms and Skype conversations. You think that you already know each other pretty well and are ready to leave the Motherland and run away to your beloved on the edge of the world. But still it's worth going down to the ground and carefully thinking about whether you are ready for such turns of fate.Are you ready to leave your loved ones, parents and girlfriends, because there will not be a chance to cry in a vest or, on the contrary, to brag of a new dress. They will not come to you on the birthday and on the New Year, and you can not go to them for a holiday. You will have to live long among strangers and strangers.
If you are not stopped, and you are ready to reconcile to the first time with loneliness, then we will bring a couple of tips, as they say, to the path.
Before we finally decide on moving, we advise the month to go to visit him, get acquainted with his parents, see where and how he lives. Evaluate, you have the same idea of everyday life and family values. Even better, if you come to visit an important holiday for the family. This is a great opportunity to get acquainted with his relatives, and learn many interesting details about the future of the husband. Believe, aunts and grandmothers are ready to share this information with you.
A good experience and verification of relations will be the invitation of the groom to visit him. You will see how a person behaves in a situation that is not comfortable for him. At the same time he will see how you are used to living. If everything suits us, then we move on.
What is necessary to remember and know when going abroad? What you can not escape from the language barrier. And it is better to solve this problem to the Motherland. Register for a foreign language course, take a repeater for the pronunciation of spoken pronunciation. It is very important. Believe me, your spouse can not be with you all 24 hours a day.
It is also important to remember that in the country you are traveling to, there are your traditions, rules and customs, which you must certainly learn, know and observe. Learn more about them. What religion is in the country, what way of life is it that it is forbidden to do.
Find out from your future spouse if you can work for his profession in his country. It's great if your profession is in demand abroad. And if not, think over all possible employment options. It will be superfluous to take care of driving skills if you do not know how to drive. Believe abroad, most often driver's license is needed by everyone.
And, of course, the most important issue is financial. It is noteworthy if the future spouse will provide you with the entire period of adaptation, or, even better, all your life. But it's better to take some money with you, to tell a reliable rear for unforeseen situations. Calculate how much on the average you need for the first time, and be sure to prepare this amount before departure. This can be traveler's checks, a credit card or cash. And take the time to sell material values and real estate in the homeland, it can always be done.
And when you, having passed at least this, can confidently say - YES! AGREE! You can safely go to a new life abroad.