And even more so if he was presented on a date. It is very important here that the gift corresponds to the expectations of the companion, its relevance in general, and the meaning attached to it.
When can I bring an intimate gift for a date?
First of all, to give objects of a sexual nature to a girl who is hardly familiar is like asking her for immediate separation. Or cry out for a blow to the face. Approximately 0, 5% of girls according to statistics for such a gift, given at the first or second meeting by a stranger, were taken adequately. The others reacted differently, but almost always very violently: from a loud stream of insults to the donor, to a banal slap and a sudden escape away. Therefore, intending to give a sexy gift to the girl she liked, she did not really know her character, the guy should better prepare for a series of not the most pleasant surprises.
Further, even a well-known passion to give such a thing should be extremely cautious. First you need to find out her opinion about such gifts in general, then indirectly ask about how she would react to such a gift. There are a lot of ways to do this: you can tell her the story that someone's acquaintance did this and listened to her comments, or see with her a film in which a girl on a date is presented with a sexual gift. The main thing is that she does not realize that this way the guy checks exactly her reaction to such gifts.
Even if the girl is very loyal to sexual gifts, loves intimate hints and is quite predisposed to intimacy with a barely familiar partner, it is not necessary to give her such a gift anyway. Firstly, in fact, she may not be as open to sex as she wants to appear. And her apparent benevolence is just an attempt to keep the pretty guy next to her for a little longer. Secondly, one can not forget that meetings most often occur in a public place. And even if a girl loves loose behavior in bed with her only one, then in public, accepting such a gift, she may be embarrassed. As a result, instead of the anticipated stormy night, the donor will get the spoiled mood of her companion and spend the whole evening believing that he did not try to demonstrate to the audience the fact that he already has an active sex life with his girlfriend.
What should such things be?
If the guy found out that to the gifts of intimate purpose the girl is supportive and with a high degree of probability will calmly react to the presentation of one of them on a date, this is not his exhaustive work. The next step is to answer one more important question. How should it be - a relevant sexual gift to a girl on a date? Here it is necessary to work thoroughly. After all, in this case, an intimate subject is not only a hint of continuing the evening, but also a sign of attention to a pretty companion. It must meet all the requirements for a gift. But at the same time, stay reasonably sexy.
So, the ideal option - a thematic board game. On the one hand, it's quite an innocent thing. On the other hand, the innate nature of the gift of her innocence does not diminish. It is likely that even for a girl, to sexual gifts related to conviction, but not devoid of a sense of humor - this subject will do the best. She will appreciate the courage of the donor, his honesty, emphasizing the desire of the girl and she will certainly become interested in playing this game.
Another good version of the sexual gift is a product of personal creativity. It is difficult to imagine a woman who would not have been touched by her own poems by the admirer, to which she inspired him. Even more difficult to imagine that the girl will not like the picture written in her honor by the brush opposite the artist. And the most pleasant thing in all this is that in the work of sexual overtones looks for the representatives of the fragile sex is not at all offensive, but exquisite. Painted her same naked nature - directly from the heroine herself, so often seen at night, or from the imagination of the author - will generate more admiration and gratitude than irritation. And about poetry with erotic overtones, perhaps even on the verge of vulgarity, but not beyond it, and it's not worth talking about: no woman was born who did not want to become the heroine of the romantic poem.
What should not be in sexual gifts?
In any case - whether the girl is waiting for a sexual gift on a date or not, whether she is loyal to such gifts or not, whether she wants to receive it at all or not at all, the decision to present an object of intimate significance will be bold. Women with a sense of humor, able to understand their fans and ready to forgive them for some mistakes for the depth of demonstrated feelings - this determination will be appreciated. Doubting girls in themselves will even be grateful for it: a sexy gift is a frank desire for them. And every woman loves to feel desired. But there are rules that should be observed when choosing such a gift. Otherwise, the whole power of his subtext will be directed not for the benefit of relations, but against their strong half.
First, an intimate gift for a date should be exquisite. Almost erotic, but not vulgar. Otherwise, to give him directly on a date is not worth it: you can stay without a companion. Secondly, the intimate object should be small and neatly packed, but - with a transparent lid, so that the recipient does not have to unfold the entire box, wanting only to look at him with the corner of his eye. Thirdly, such a gift should be a gift to a particular girl - taking into account her tastes, color preferences, characteristics of the character, etc. And, in the last place, not one sexy gift on a date should be presented coyly, timidly, inaccurately. Otherwise, the whole point of buying it will disappear.