Signs of a lover of a man

We very often suffer from the fact that we can not understand if a man loves us. After all, in recent times, there are more and more often those who start relationships just to paw out their head, and no more. There are many external signs that help to distinguish these men. Every girl should know about these signs. It is best to start paying attention to various little things from the first date, while you are not yet in love. Then your intuition and common sense will help you overcome the emotions and feelings. And in the future this will save you from disappointment.


His eyes…

Always pay attention to the look of your partner. If the other girls do not look at you, but runs around the eyes of the opposite woman to another and does not return their eyes to you, then this is bad. Many studies have proved that a man in love will look twice as much to his partner as to everyone else.

As soon as you notice this, you immediately need to talk with your boyfriend. Ask him a question that requires a detailed answer. Watch his reaction during the story, look into his eyes. If he turns away from you, looks through you, avoids a direct look, then most likely it's not your man. There can be exclusions. For example, embarrassment because of your mimicry so on. Therefore, the girls, preparing to go on a date, always carefully put yourself in order, watch your facial expressions, appearance and behavior. The brown make-up will be absolutely out of place. He is more suitable for "hunting." When the man is already yours, you do not need to scare him away with bright tones. Makeup should be neat and calm. Of course, you can focus on the eyes or lips, but you need to know the measure. Your facial expressions should be natural. It is not necessary at the first sight to unnaturally round the mouth or goggle. It can scare away any guy.

It is recommended to practice in front of a mirror and find a mysterious, light smile for your face. Do not giggle, cover your mouth and make sudden movements. A few workouts at home and your date will be successful. You can be confident in the look of a man.

In public ...

Watch how your partner behaves when you are with him surrounded by other people. If your guy is standing in front of you or a little behind, then this may indicate his uncertainty about his feelings or that his attitude toward you is not serious. A man in love will always stand beside his companion, shoulder to shoulder.

Ultimate, there are exceptions. But, as a rule, the language is stiff. He gives out our hidden emotions and feelings.

Is this just a joke? ..

If your companion allows himself to make fun of you in a circle of friends or in front of strangers, and then calms down and says that he was joking and did not want to offend - do not believe it. This behavior is not at all ridiculous. Think about whether you need to spend your time on a person who can humiliate you in front of others. A man in love with you will never allow you to behave like a sibling. He always keeps silent or will speak only good things about you, he will compliment, that others will see what a good girl he has.

Your appearance ...

There are times when a girl asks a girl to change something in her appearance. For example, repaint the hair in a different color, increase the bust, do another make-up and so on. The girls, remember, so the man tries to manipulate you. The second and the third will follow the second request. If you go once to the boat, you may think that you have lost a man. It will no longer be completely yours. Though think about the fact, do you really need a man who is not satisfied with your appearance, your style of clothes and so on. After all, if a man does, he must accept us as we are.

You or friends?

If on the first or the third date a guy does not come alone, as his friend, then immediately forget about him. Because in the foreground friends do not stand. And so it will always be. Do not think that for your sake he will change his principles. If at the beginning of a relationship he has placed a friend higher than you, then his friends will accompany you almost everywhere. Do you need it?

Little secrets…

If a man does not want to answer a simple question "Where did you go? What did you do during the day? "And so on, trying to get away from him, that means that he has something to hide. Perhaps he just does not confide to the swami because he does not have any serious plans for you, or because he does not consider you a close person. No matter how regrettable it may sound, this is a fact. Therefore, if your guy keeps hiding from you all the details of his time, then throw him without thinking.

Money, money ...

Some men nowadays have got used to use women in full measure, up to that we provided them financially. Such male representatives are called Alfonso. Therefore, as soon as your satellite begins to talk about money, ask for a loan from you, then immediately forget about it. You do not need to believe in their heart-rending stories. In addition, if you really need money, a real man will ask them from friends, relatives and so on. And a woman who is in love will never be loaded with her problems.

Bad tone ...

If your guy is rude in restaurants, cafe waiters or other service personnel, then you need to think about this. If it happened once, you can forgive. After all, who knows what could happen: bad buildup, failure at work and so on. But if this happens all the time, leave the girls from such ignoramuses. Otherwise, they will be so with you in a short time.

What do you know about his family?

If a man reluctantly talks about the family, about himself and about the plans for the future, then this should immediately alarm. Of course, you can try to ask questions. Maybe he's just a secretive person and does not want to rush things. But most often men do not talk about such things with those ladies, who will have no plans for the future.

Rare meetings ...

If a person is really in love with you, then he will try to spend with you as much time as possible. He will be ready to go swami to the end of the world, just to talk for five minutes and enjoy your company. If he says that he is always busy and finds superfluous pretexts to not meet with you, when you ask about it, then think about the seriousness of his feelings. And there is no need to seek any excuses for him. Just spend time in vain.

Narcissism…

If a man talks too often only about himself and in his speech you hear the "I" constantly, then think, maybe he is a real "narcissus"? Such a person will always think and worry only about himself and his men. Other people will always be in the background for him.

Let's check the memory? ..

Almost all men have not a very good memory. However, the exception are loving men. Such people will never forget the date of your dating, your favorite song or the date of your birthday. If the partner often shows forgetfulness, then most likely he just crossed out of his romantic dreams.

To drink or not to drink?

Pay attention to the attitude towards alcohol. A loving man will never drink with a beloved woman.

The above signs should be used only on the first week of dating men. It is during this period that it is easiest to observe their behavior and actions, on the basis of which one can draw conclusions and understand whether it is necessary to waste their time on this man.