Envy.
Perhaps, those who say that they have never envied anyone in their lives are cunning. Sooner or later, envy overtakes us and does not hurry to let go. A neighbor has a good figure, which she inherited, and you have not left the gym for a year. The colleague became the head of a year after the graduation from the university, you are sitting in the same place for 5 years. Someone has a husband, and you do not even have a dog. Someone has a big car, and you have a bicycle on the balcony. There are plenty of reasons for envy, just give her will, as she threatens to overwhelm her head.
Envy breeds our fears, regret about missed opportunities, complexes and illusions. A neighbor can in fact be a fat woman who simply wears corrective underwear that you do not suspect. The colleague became the headmistress, because she had to become the mistress of the old and vile Chief Boss. Someone's husband changes someone's, a service car and hair extensions. But you do not know about this and you continue to be jealous.
Perhaps, this feeling should be thrown out first.
The immense ego.
Each of us considers himself unique and has every right to do so. If you are firmly convinced that there is nobody better than you and can not be, if you think that everyone should love you just because you are, in spite of how you behave, these are already problems. In the end, you can be considered an incorrigible selfish person and remain in proud solitude.
Get rid of your huge ego, which has long prevented you from living, clinging to all sharp angles and hurting others. You will instantly feel relief and do not dare to stay with a diagnosis of megalomania.
All-knowing.
Did not you notice that at every convenient and uncomfortable event you begin to teach others life? Are you distributing advice to the right and left, even when you are not asked for it? If you do not allow relatives to solve personal issues on their own, if you meet and impose your opinion, it's time to stop. Think, is your opinion really the only true or, and you can make a mistake? Stop and get rid of the manner of teaching everyone and everyone and you will see that there are many interesting things in the world that even you do not know.
Love of weakness.
Some people do not hide their shortcomings, they love them, cherish and cherish. They recognize both the propensity for lying, and crooked legs, and bitchiness, and pettiness, but ... are in no hurry to get rid of it. If you think the most pleasant topic for discussion is a discussion of your own shortcomings, then you should have noticed that you do not have many friends, but everyone who wants a detective easily gets to the patient himself.
Get rid of self-pity and begin to eliminate the reasons why you so want to feel sorry for yourself.
Vengefulness.
Of course, sometimes even close people make such nasty things, which can not be answered. But if you take revenge on people for every reason - and for being pushed into the subway and for having been deprived of the prize, it's worth considering what's wrong with you. In some troubles, you can be to blame for yourself, not for others. Do not blame their shoulders. Forgive people who accidentally or specially offended you, try to forget these grievances and stop revenge. Try to live differently, to become more benevolent. You will quickly feel how life has become easier without oppressive hatred.
We all have shortcomings. Someone likes to make promises and never fulfills them. Someone is sarcastic about every occasion, someone is lying at every turn, someone can not talk about anything other than about themselves. We do not always notice these shortcomings in ourselves, but we often see in others. Perhaps regular general cleaning can be an excellent way to get rid of the burden of unpleasant habits. In their place can come other, those that will make you better.