It depends on compatibility with each other, relationships in the family, sexual constitution, lifestyle and so on. If for men, sexual relations with his woman are interesting and bright at the first, initial stage, then for women it often happens vice versa. Sex brings the greatest joy after learning a partner. When a woman learns to feel her man, to receive from him a real and not imitated, like some do, orgasm - a man already by this time is trying to find new sensations. The result is a rare sex within the family. Rare sex is a must in couples with different sexual constitution. The sensuality of a woman wakes up sometimes quite late, and it happens that she refuses to have sex with her husband, referring to fatigue. Therefore, rare sex in the family is not only the "fault" of men. Remember that a woman who refuses a man in sex is a threat to her own family prosperity. Almost all men are such that they easily go to adultery and this is not a moral appearance, but a natural need and a peculiarity of the male psyche.
The problem of unwanted pregnancy worries a woman during each intimate affinity. Men on the family bed do not care about contraception at all, considering it to be the lot of women. Many are not at all interested in how many abortions his wife made. Therefore, for both married and unmarried women, the question of what contraceptive means is available with rare sex is in the first place in terms of sexuality.
One of the best ways to protect is, of course, a condom. But men prefer to use it outside the home, during casual sex. After all, in their opinion, the "rubber friend" dulls the sensations. And at home, the sensations are already not enough. Women, for the sake of their husbands, to the detriment of their own interests, go on about them, refusing to use a condom.
Some couples with spontaneous rare sex practice interrupted sexual intercourse. But this is far from the best way to protect, and sooner or later it "pierces". There is an opinion that interrupted sexual intercourse is also not safe for men's health, since it can lead to early impotence. And then, he just "steals" the desired sensations on both sides, which means it is a further prerequisite for rare sex.
So, what contraceptives are available with rare sex. You can use the calendar method. It is based on control over the ovulation of one's own egg. Each woman knows her menstrual cycle and can easily calculate the day when the egg leaves the body (seven or ten days after ovulation). The only question is whether your husband will want sex on this day. According to medical data, the method, as well as the interrupted sexual intercourse, is not characterized by high efficiency
In addition to the natural methods that are mentioned above, there are methods of chemical and mechanical protection. In addition to a condom as a mechanical protection, both with frequent and rare sex, if there is no contraindication, you can use an intrauterine device. This is perhaps the best barrier. Modern Navy can protect you from unwanted pregnancy and thoughts about it for as long as ten years. IUDs can be copper-containing, silver-containing and progestin-containing. The latter also act as hormonal means. In addition, rare sex, at some point in life, can become frequent. And this will bring not only joy, but also a new "headache". It is proved that the effectiveness of using intrauterine spirals is such that for 100 women there are from 0.1 to 0.8 pregnancies. These are very good indicators! As a result of using the intrauterine device, the following occurs: both the mobility and vitality of the spermatozoa decrease, the process of egg propagation is accelerated, its life time decreases. The most remarkable thing is that if all the same spermatozoa contrive to impregnate an egg, then it will be excreted from the body thanks to the IUD.
As a chemical protection with rare sex, spermicides are very convenient and effective. They are vaginal tablets, suppositories (suppositories) or creams and are suitable for single, single use. An example of the use of tablets may serve as benzalkonium chloride. It is administered five minutes before the sexual intercourse begins, the protection is from three to four hours. This drug is also available in the form of a cream with a validity of up to 10 hours. The cream is also an antiseptic, it does not have a harmful effect on the hormonal background of a woman and the microflora of the reproductive system. The drug is also approved for use by pregnant and lactating breasts. It is important to know that any drug injected into the vagina, as well as washing with water and soap, can destroy the activity of Benzalkonium chloride.
As a contraceptive for rare sex, you can use the drug Nonoxynol-9. It is a vaginal suppository, which is injected into the vagina 10 before the onset of sexual intercourse. The candle should melt and evenly spread out inside. The drug also has an antimicrobial, antiviral, antifungal property. If there is a possibility of a second act, then a new candle must be introduced.
An emergency and very effective drug that prevents an unwanted pregnancy is Postinor. It can be used after an unintended sexual intercourse, not later than in 24 hours. Further it becomes ineffective. At the end of forty-eight hours, the efficiency drops to 85%. This remedy is very strong, has an abortifacient effect even with the onset of pregnancy. If you decide to use this device, then strictly follow the recommendations specified in the instructions for use. Postinor is used regardless of the menstrual cycle, that is, on any day. The contraceptive and abortive effect of the drug is based on the high content of the synthetic hormone levonorgestrel. The drug is used no more than once a month.
Postinor is well known to many women and to doctors. It has been used for many years. Now there are new items of this action with improved properties. For example, Escapel. It also contains levonorgestrel, but you can use it after ninety-six hours after unprotected sex. As an emergency postcoital contraception with rare sex, you can use Ginepristone, whose action is based on blocking progesterone.
When hormonal drugs are used, consultation with a doctor is mandatory!
Any woman, no matter how frequent her sex, should have in her medicine cabinet (in the absence of medical contraindications and if not installed by the Navy) such a gonadal obeschalochki. Yet a single high dose of hormonal drugs will cause far less harm than surgical intervention in the form of an abortion.