Not all men suffer from gynecomania - an increased sexual attraction. While most women believe that men constantly want sex, male representatives often generally refuse sex with their girlfriends and wives.
Polls show that about 20 million couples in the US live without sex. About 20% - make love less than 10 times a year.
Researchers identified 5 reasons why men refuse to enter into intimate relationships. In the book "He's Not Alone" (He's Just Not Up for It Anymore), the problem is examined by the example of 4000 men and women living in a marriage without sex. It turned out that couples not only avoid sexual intercourse directly, but also refuse kisses, hugs and mutual caresses.
1. Sex turned into a routine (68%) or a partner does not get pleasure from sex (61%). The consequence of this is a loss of interest in sex, which lacks diversity. It's funny that men who talk about this, do not notice at all that they themselves do not even try to somehow diversify the action that is happening in the bedroom. Instead, they abuse their partner for lack of novelty and pleasure.
2. The wife / girlfriend does not interest him as a sexual partner (48%). By nature, healthy men are sexual. Most of them regularly masturbate, which in itself clearly does not indicate lack of desire. Just often family life, giving men stability, leads to boredom.
3. He is angry with her (44%). These men believe that the partners are constantly criticized, controlled and underestimated. In addition, they think that they mean nothing to their wife / girlfriend. They shout, emotionally express remarks, constantly are dissatisfied with something. It is not surprising that in the course of this war there is no place for the manifestation of feelings.
4. The wife / girl is very fat (38%). It's funny that when a man gains weight, he does not cease to consider sexually attractive, but when their girlfriend suddenly gets fat, they cease to consider her beautiful.
5. He likes to watch porn (22%). Even if the wife / girlfriend often visits a sex shop, does not scold or criticize her man, he may prefer to look at frank sites on the Internet. The main problem here is that the fantasies of men can replace their real sex life.
The authors of the book name a few less popular reasons, among them: impotence, alcoholism or drug addiction, mental disorders, sexual trauma, abstinence from sex to punish a woman, depression (his or her), taking medications that affect libido, lack of sexual desire .
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