A man experiences an orgasm during each sexual intercourse. He is simpler, because his sexual satisfaction is directly related to ejaculation, which is necessary for fertilization. Female orgasm is not associated with the continuation of the genus. Conception of the child can take place without orgasm. Its only purpose for a woman is to have pleasure.
Female orgasm is of two types:
- Vaginal orgasm.
- Clitoral orgasm.
It is believed that the first type of orgasm is more real, but it is not. Clitoral orgasm is also necessary for a woman and, moreover, is easier to achieve. It is with this type of orgasm that most women are familiar.
Secrets of orgasm: the knowledge of your body
Every woman should understand that she is able to deliver real pleasure. Therefore, it is necessary to engage in the knowledge of your body with the help of masturbation. Many women consider masturbation indecent and therefore hesitate to do. But sexologists claim that only those women who can give themselves pleasure, experience orgasm while being close to a sexual partner. Problems with getting an orgasm often arise from the refusal of masturbation. During intercourse, it is difficult for a man to understand what allows his partner to experience maximum pleasure. It will be much easier for him if the woman himself hints at him.
For the knowledge of your body, create a cozy relaxing environment for yourself. Eliminate all the scattering factors, remove the light, turn on the music, if necessary. Begin to caress the breast. Then go on to explore your intimate places. Touching at the beginning of knowledge must be gentle, careful, and then add a little strength. During the touch, the muscles of the abdomen and thighs should be strained. Once you understand how quickly to give yourself pleasure, then it will be easier for you to train your sexual partner.
Secrets of orgasm: clitoral orgasm during masturbation
To experience this type of orgasm you need to stimulate the clitoris. Start better with gentle touches to the pubic area, as well as the inner thighs. After that you can go to the weasels of the clitoris. Stroke it gently, since the skin here is tender. Therefore, one should not start with intense weasels of the clitoris, because this can cause unpleasant sensations.
Feel the clitoral convex point. You can carry out circular motions, caressing up and down, right-left. When you feel that the excitement is intensifying, go on to intense movements. In this case, it is important to feel the best rhythm for achieving orgasm.
Secrets of orgasm: a clitoral orgasm with a sexual partner
This type of orgasm during sexual intercourse is not achieved in every posture. When the clitoris is not involved, the partner can fondle it with his hand.
The most pleasant way is oral sex. Unfortunately, quite often some couples do not accept this kind of sex. But in vain. If a man is ready to give a woman pleasure through oral caresses, then she should not be shy. During this type of sex, a woman should lie on her back, spread her legs, raise her hips slightly and bend her knees. Partner is better to caress first the inner surface of the thigh with his fingers, and then with a strong excitement of a woman, you should caress the clitoris with the help of a tongue.
It is difficult for a man to understand the pace and intensity of caresses necessary for a woman. Therefore, it must be delicately directed. For example, a strong sigh may indicate that now a woman is particularly pleased or tips can be with the help of hip movements.
Secrets of orgasm: vaginal orgasm during masturbation
This type of orgasm differs from the clitoral quality of sensations. If the clitoral orgasm is tested as a sudden splash, then the vaginal is experienced as gradually developing heat throughout the body.
To get a vaginal orgasm, you need to know where the woman has the point G (pleasure point). But some experts still doubt its existence.
In order to feel the point G, insert a moist finger into the vagina. Bending it, feel the front surface of the vagina. There you will find a rough surface (1-3 cm), located about 5 cm from the entrance to the vagina. This is the point G. First, touching this point will be associated with the sensations of a crowded bladder. Continue gently pressing the point with your fingertip, making circular motions.
Secrets of orgasm: vaginal orgasm with a sexual partner
To achieve vaginal orgasm during sexual intercourse, it is necessary to study exercises aimed at training the muscles of Kegel. These exercises increase the sensitivity of the vagina. For muscle training, strain the muscles of the vagina as if you are holding your urine. These exercises do 3 times a day, 10 times per workout. Strain muscles should not be more than 3 seconds.
During intimacy, the sexual partner should slowly caress the area around the clitoris and the clitoris itself. When the vagina is moistened, go to sexual intercourse. During sex, choose such poses that would further stimulate the point G. In particular, you can use the posture when the man is behind.
To this day, there is controversy about the type of female orgasm is better. However, experts do not advise to dwell on this issue, since any orgasm is beautiful. Only orgasm is differentiated by the ways of achievement. However, the female orgasm, first of all, is experienced in the brain.