Do not forget about surprises
Even after 10 years of living together, your other half expects from you small, sweet gifts or surprises. Experiment and instead of a practical and useful gift, make breakfast in bed, invite to a romantic dinner in a cozy restaurant or wear erotic lingerie. Remember, because at the beginning of your relationship, when they were full of passion, you did not give each other pans, vacuum cleaners or warm underwear with fleece.
Have sex
Do not just engage in the so-called fulfillment of marital duties, but experiment. If the passion has faded a little, it makes sense to look for ways to return it. For this there are many ways: erotic underwear, role-playing games, new places, poses, ways, sexual toys. All this will make your sex life more interesting and richer. Just do not forget to discuss with your partner his wishes.
Do not give too much importance to domestic problems
Honestly, life kills passion, so it should worry you as little as possible or not worry at all. This does not mean that it's time to turn into a hippie. Try to equip your house in such a way that there is nothing superfluous in it. Make it as convenient as possible for your family. The same applies to the duties of your family members. Drop stereotypes about the typically male and female affairs. You will feel not burdened with life only if you do your favorite things, and transfer the rest to specialists.
Remember: you are created to love, not to nag
Believe me, with a man who constantly saws you do not want to have anything in common. From such except that hide or run away. If you constantly point to things that do not suit you, you will soon lose not only your family harmony, but also your partner. But this does not mean that you have to accumulate negative emotions in yourself, because in the end they will break out and blow everything up. Talk to your loved ones, and if they do not hear you, it's not their problem, maybe you should change the approach. By the way, think about it, maybe you just exaggerated the importance of all these things. Is one unwashed dish worth the scandal?
Take the weekend
It's not about work, but about family. Sometimes you also need to rest from it. Children, parents, this is certainly happiness, but against their background you can lose yourself. Try to pay enough attention to each other. Be alone, leave together for the city, do not pull children after you, sometimes you can leave them at the grandmother or hire a nanny. Believe me, it will be better for the children themselves, because happy parents are the guarantee of healthy relations in the family.
Look for a good friend in a friend
Unfortunately, the longer we live in a marriage, the more often we begin to forget about the positive traits of a loved one and focus our attention on shortcomings. Look at the truth in the face, everyone has bad features, but you fell in love with each other for nice and important things for you. By the way, maybe your second half simply can not show their best side, since there is no reason for this? For example, if your husband is a good cook, give him the opportunity to do so. And if the wife laughs nicely, give her more reasons for happiness.
Find a joint hobby
To spend more time together you can do something common. It is advisable that it is not a general cleaning or going to the market. Find a joint hobby, for example, you can do sports together, dance, get carried away with cooking or traveling. It will rally your family as you will be carried away by something pleasant for both of them, at the same time learning something new and useful.
Show interest in each other's hobbies
In addition to joint hobbies, it is worth paying due attention and personal. It is absolutely not important to divide and admire them, but interest can strengthen your relationship. In addition, if you are sympathetic towards your husband's love of paintball or philately, you will always have a topic for conversation. You will always feel part of his life and there will be no place for detachment in your relationship.
Develop family traditions
This will benefit not only your couple, but also rally the whole family. You can create a tradition by celebrating a specific date, for example, New Year or Christmas, or create your own unique holiday. Choose a specific date, collect friends and celebrate the day when you visited the idea of living together all your life. You can come up with a funny event, for example, celebrate the day when your husband gave you a mop. All this will be very funny and funny.
Confess your love
Some believe that after several years of family life, every member of the family is aware that he is loved by others. We are sorry to upset you, this is not so. Such simple, at first glance, three words play a huge role: add confidence, joy. Feelings must always be expressed, not only with words, but with deeds. Truth try to balance words and deeds.
Be attentive to each other, do not focus on problems and seek new sensations and knowledge. Here is a simple secret of harmonious and happy relationships that will never depend on the number of years lived together.