Scientists conducted an experiment and calculated how many times a man and woman in love think about each other during the day. According to the conditions of the study, lovers had to fix the number of memories of their beloved. The results were quite predictable. Women thought about the object of their love from 20 to 60 times, and men - only 4-5 times. Psychologists explain this striking disparity by the fact that men concentrate on current affairs and are not sprayed into several tasks at the same time, even if it is pleasing to the heart. With women, everything is different. They are able to deal with many things in passing, and still keep in the background a bunch of thoughts or memories. Physically, it is impossible to make a man think about himself. But you can always use psychological, energy and even magic techniques that will help to settle in thoughts, and therefore in the heart of a beloved man. It remains only to choose acceptable for themselves ways.
How to make a man think about himself: advice of psychologists
Experts on psychology advise to influence the subconscious of a man, having developed in him some kind of dependence on himself and his presence in his thoughts:- Cat and mouse. Men are averse to riddles and intrigues. If they are cleverly "turned-over", this turns a man, arouses his curiosity. For this reception, of course, you need an already interested man. Flirt, interesting communication and a couple of dates - this will be enough to start playing with him in "cat and mouse". After a warm conversation, disappear from the life of a man for a couple of days. The hunter's instinct will wake up in him, and he can not help thinking about you. But it is important not to over-restrain the intrigue, otherwise the man will regard it as a "dynamo".
- Association. In psychology, the creation of pleasant associations associated with memories is called anchoring. You can "anchor" your man by linking yourself in his memory with some pleasant experience. For example: a cinema, a movie, kisses on the last row of the cinema. Every time a man will see the main characters of this film in the media or hear music, he will involuntarily recall those passionate kisses with you. Smells, too, are the best way to evoke memories. Before the meeting with a man, apply a couple drops of persistent, pleasant and popular perfume on your wrist. Let the man get used to your scent. Further, wherever he smelled it, the smell would reliably fix in his memory the association with you.
- A codeword. Choose an unusual word (not too common in everyday life) and call them, for example, sex with your man. During or after sex, say: "This is divine!". Repeat the word every time and accustom a man to him. Use this "code" when you want to call your loved one with pleasant memories. For example, write him a message about what a divinely delicious cake you ate at lunch. This word will forever take hold of you in the mind of a man and, having met him in everyday life, he will unconsciously remember you and about what this word means for your couple personally.
How to make a man think of himself: advice esoteric
Esoteric knowledge helps to erase the line between visualization and reality. Use effective practices for this:- Esoteric "hypnosis". You can fill the mind of a man with thoughts of you:
- Make sure that he is asleep (nearby) or going to go to bed (if at a distance).
- Lie down and relax (you can meditate before practice to rid your head of daytime worries, feelings and chaos of thoughts).
- Fill yourself with thoughts about your man: his image, smell, look, manner of talking, moving, etc.
- When the image becomes clear and strong, mentally move to the man and penetrate the energy of his body, brain, consciousness.
- Send him specific instructions on the thoughts and actions that you want him to get.
- Introduce into his consciousness a bright image of yourself, "teach" him to think and feel you.
- Sincere faith. Admit in your head the unconditional possibility that you are with your man an ideal couple. Allow yourself to purposefully wander in the clouds. Imagine and, above all, feel your emotions caused by realistic thoughts about how you together, for example, prepare dinner (feel the smell of food, taste of ready meals, words and actions that you say / do together); make love, receive guests, etc. Live it virtually, but consciously. For practice, take at least half an hour a day. The result you will be amazed!
How to make a man think of himself: advice of magicians
All women ... witch. It is a sin not to take advantage of this natural gift to get the thoughts of the heart of a man:- Speak the food. When planning a joint dinner, conspire to the man's favorite meal when you cook it. For this ritual, you need to observe several rules: tune in positively, gather a bundle of hair, put on clean clothes. The process of preparation is accompanied by a song about happy love and affectionate words about your man. Think in a positive way, remember your happy moments and cook with love. Filling the dish with the energy of love, you declare your intention to be happy with this particular man. And that he, having eaten this magic dish, thought of you, whisper on him the words: "Come - think of me, go away - think about me, sleep, and I dream of you, wake up, and see me hurry."
- "Napote" with thoughts about yourself. During a romantic feast, make sure that the main drink is red wine. Drink a little from your glass, and a little imperceptibly pour into the glass of the man, mentally or in a whisper (according to the situation) say: "Drink, drink, and remember me." Be confident, a man, even if he really wants, can not get rid of thoughts about you. And thoughts generate actions.
- Feed the soured bread. Cook on any bread recipe on the leaven on yeast. Send her to a warm place to warm up. When the mass begins to bubble and rise, scoop up three thimble of liquid and drink, saying: "Next to my heart, the dough falls down, and (in the name of a man) the thought of me will arise." Bake bread and treat a man.