A few words about useful laziness


You will not believe, but psychologists say: laziness is the quality of a rational and creative person. There are two types of people. Some believe that to live properly is to work hard, while others are struggling to resist the cult of work. Moreover, they find it difficult to do everything that they do not want to do. The first have more time than the second, but the quality of their life is lower. Because for labor records they pay with peace of mind, health, relationships with relatives. So I wanted to say a few words about useful laziness. After all, all that is sometimes necessary for happiness - pofilonov in time ...

Day of laziness.

Of course, not every laziness is equally useful. When you hear that it is not bad to be lazy, it is by no means meant that you should immediately change into pajamas and watch the "Stay alive" all day, eating chips with worry for the fate of the heroes (such pastime can be useful not more than once a year ). Good laziness is the one that saves you from the stress that inevitably accumulates: you have to constantly follow someone's instructions and step on your throat to your own needs throughout the whole working week. In order not to bring yourself to exhaustion, you need to be able to relax - as you personally like.

People give a lot of money to fly to the "beautiful far", and, in fact, they do not pay for the air ticket. The fact is that the overseas beaches are bundled with the opportunity to do nothing - do not cook yourself and your favorite dinner, and eat in a restaurant, change a dull office suit for a colorful sundress, frolic in the shallows, forgetting about the mandatory twenty-five circles in the pool. But who prevents you from doing something like this at home? Take the rule of regularly arranging yourself "unloading days" and do only what you want. Thus, you will not only be able to relax a little and relieve stress - you will also add a couple of coins to the treasure chest of your own happiness. After all, the hole is so nice to be a bad girl, who escaped from all her adult affairs and duties.

The Fast and the Furious.

In relationships, it's always like that: it seems that it will be really good afterwards - when the money for the Maldives will appear; when he finally gets this fucking rise and again turns into a normal person; when his mother will stop to see you as a dangerous predator ... In anticipation of this "then" you can live years, not noticing all the beautiful that is available now.

In love, we often implement career scenarios - set a goal and go to it. But there is a significant difference between the service and the relations in the pair. To be the head of the company is really more interesting than the operator of the copier, both in terms of duties, and in terms of the amount of remuneration. But in love there are no posts. There are only phases - courtship, a joint life, a family - and they are absolutely equivalent. That is, you can be very happy, being just "his girlfriend", and not painfully strive to become "his wife", then to relax and begin to have fun.

So stop pushing your relationship under the imposed by the cinema and TV curves. In order to prepare a delicious dinner in four hands, it is absolutely not necessary to take a master class from the chef "Ritz". With sex the same. In pursuit of orgasm, you can, like a greyhound, wind round the stadium, trying to catch a mechanical hare. And while not enjoying the work of your body, do not feel the wind, do not appreciate the freedom of running. Because there is a Goal. Trying to become the most sexually satisfied woman on the planet, you can skip all the pleasant things that there is in making love. Learn to enjoy the process.

Lightness of Being.

If people were not lazy, probably they would still build cities using the techniques of ancient Egyptians and Aztecs: fifty kilograms of stone on the scruff of the neck and on foot to the construction site. It is the unwillingness to do unnecessary work (and sometimes even any work) generates the desire to seek non-standard solutions. Therefore the phrase that laziness is the engine of progress is not without foundation at all. Judge for yourself: it was lazy and for the lazy, a microwave oven, a remote control, a hair dryer were invented. Now all these technological miracles save our strength and time, which can be spent on something much more pleasant.

"I'm lazy!" - if you think about it, it's a great motivation. It's no secret that most women love purity, while quietly hating the rag. And some of them solve this problem so - get a job to buy a washing vacuum cleaner. And a year later they receive a promotion and hire a housekeeper. In their free time from homework, they get a new promising specialty, which makes it possible to assume: in a few years they will be able to afford a personal chef. They can not stand pots-noise, either!

I and my laziness.

Since childhood, we are taught that lazy people are wasting time. But if you think about it, it's completely wrong. After all, time is not a collective property, and anyone who irresponsibly spends it at their own discretion does not at all take it away from honest workaholics! In fact, only you know how to spend your hours and minutes correctly. Sometimes lazy - just means "do not waste time for nothing."

If you are too lazy to read the new-fangled bestseller, because you know that in this case a huge number of blunders and incidents is not a stylistic device - it's good. Because postponing a stupid book, you can do something more enjoyable or useful. By the way, you certainly paid attention to the fact that you do not want to realize your cherished desires. Perhaps, every day you hypnotize the arrow of office hours with a glance and exactly at 18:00, forgetting about fatigue, break to training? So maybe it's time for you to become a fitness instructor? Or are you ready to run around half the city in search of the only dress that suits you, without losing courage on the fifth fitting? Why do you continue to make annual reports when you could become an excellent personal stylist?

Think about what makes you truly happy. It is possible that your hobby can bring money! Laziness allows you to jump out of the squirrel wheel, which is daily circling the work-house-work route, and look around. It is possible that, rotating at great speed, you dropped the dream of your life, which only waits, when you finally get lazy, stop and pick it up.