A romantic man - this has become quite a strange concept in the modern world. Many, wondering whether it's good or bad when a guy is romantic, tend to negative. Why did people stop thinking that a romantic is good? Why do we think: a man is a romantic, good or bad?
Now we will talk about men-romantics, it's good or bad. Who is a real man? And who is a real romantic? Why be a materialist and a cynic good? Why is romanticism bad?
Stereotypes about romantic men
In fact, for many modern women, a romantic man seems weak. They think that a romantic can only give chamomiles and offer paradise in a hut. And this, of course, is not at all good. Here are the ladies and they think that romance is bad.
That's just the stereotype that's wrong. In fact, spineless and hopeless can be a rude, completely unromantic person. Then who is he, a real romantic?
To begin with, let's not confuse romance with the typical slut and unrecognized genius. It's these guys who spoil the image of the romance. Because many women take their tearful outpourings in verse and prose as romance. In fact, such men do everything to be pitied. Even they do it for this. They never get women to work. And in words they only express how painful and bad they are, because they were not loved.
And when women give them a chance to prove something in practice, instead of working on themselves, such men just begin to rant about the meaning of life and the difficulties in life. Further words they do not enter. As a result, women are bored with wiping their snot and they begin to declare that it is better to live without poetry and sweets, but with a man who is able to do at least something real, and not just to tear from the flower beds of chamomile.
What is he, a real man?
A real romantic man is not like that at all. He, of course, also knows how to see beauty in ordinary clouds or to give a bouquet of wild flowers to a girl. But at this time the lady of the heart will sit in his car. Real romance in the corner of everything is love. They are not exchanged for trifles, therefore, when they find "their" woman, immediately set themselves on a serious relationship. And if a person wants something serious, accordingly, he understands that he should be responsible not only for himself.
A real romantic always does everything to be able to please his beloved with a pleasant surprise. Of course, a young man can not give fur coats and diamonds. But, he tries to do everything to such an opportunity appeared in the very near future. However, he will not try to buy a woman for money. Such people do not choose those girls who are only interested in wealth and material values. At the same time, romantics do not deny that material wealth is a necessity. And they will try to do everything so that their beloved woman will not need anything. But, only in the event that they see that the girl gives her love and tries to support and help in everything.
It is romantics who are well-bred young people who are able to gallantly behave with their beloved girl. Even if they were not noticed earlier, they are laid in it and manifested as litmus paper, when the only one and the most beloved appears alongside.
Real romantics always try to do something nice for a woman. But, this does not mean that they always buy the most expensive. No, it's all about something else. Just this kind of man always listens attentively to his woman and notices all her tastes and wishes. It is he who will give her the birthday of her favorite red roses, not chamomiles, like the rest, because it's summer outside. It is he who always buys only banana juice, because she loves bananas, will find her favorite kind of cheese and will order a banana cake for the holiday.
Romantic men always respect the wishes of their beloved woman. Sex for them is not an opportunity to satisfy themselves. This is an opportunity to really give pleasure to the native person. Therefore, they never insist and do not force, seeing in this, first of all, the manifestation of feelings, and only then - the physical attraction. And when the romantics get to sex, they do not try to prove anything and show that they are macho. Such young people simply want their native people to be happy.
Romantics always respect their woman. In order not to happen, they will never allow themselves to discuss their loved ones with friends, talk about bad things, build something to appear in a men's company better and steeper.
They always protect their loved ones. This is not just about a beloved woman, but about her, of course, in the first place. It is with such a romantic man that he is never afraid to walk the streets. Because he will do everything to protect his beloved. He may hate to fight, but for her sake, get into the fight, do not want to engage in various martial arts, but study them so that it is not terrible for him to walk along dark alleys.
How does a real romantic look?
A romantic can look quite different. There is no single image under which it would be possible to fit this category of men. Real romantics do not always wear long hair, white shirts, behave calmly and thoughtfully. Although there are just such young people. But, whatever it was, and no matter how it looked like a man, his nature is evident from the behavior and attitude towards a woman. Romantics always respect ladies and try never to insult them, even deservedly. And even more so do not raise your hand.
Therefore, before talking about being a romantic is bad, you need to learn to distinguish real romantics from those who try to seem to them, but in fact they behave like real nothingness, which you need to love, patronize, protect and save. It's not romantic. These are just guys who proudly wear the title of "men", but in actual fact turn out to be miserable muslin girls.
