Condoms provide about 97% protection against unwanted pregnancy and infectious diseases. It is a fact. But nevertheless, many couples remain zealous supporters of sex without a condom and are ready to take the risk of insecurity in the name of sexual pleasure. The reason is that many people believe that condoms reduce sensitivity during intercourse and even make it painful or unpleasant. Frankly speaking, this can not even be called statements. Just stupid conjectures of those who for some reason are afraid in the intimate terms of "alien" things. Here the main reason for rejection is the wrong psychological attitude.
The danger of having sex without a condom is what is it?
In any case, having sex, you run the risk. Regardless of whether you use a condom or not. The only difference is that with a condom you have a "chance" to get pregnant or become infected, for example, AIDS only 3%, and without it - all 100%. This does not mean that you will necessarily get sick or become pregnant. But why test fate?
Of course, there are cases of offensive, for example, pregnancy after sex with a condom. But this is either because of a poor-quality product or as a result of its damage. It happens to everyone! Yes, having sex with a condom, you need to follow certain rules. There's nothing to be done. But they are not so complicated in execution. But the result will be undoubted.
Can I not get pregnant without a condom?
Some couples believe that in sex without a condom there is nothing dangerous if a man has the ability to control the process and finish it "past" the woman. However, they clearly do not know that, except for sperm, you can get pregnant and from the mucus that expires during the act and serves as additional lubrication. This mucus is a special secret, formed from the glands located at the base of the penis, and its purpose is to neutralize the acidity of the male urethra and moisten the internal canal. It represents 5% of the volume of sperm that is released during ejaculation. And the longer the sexual stimulation lasts, the more the amount of this fluid is released. So removing the penis before ejaculation is not the surest way to avoid unwanted pregnancy.
Do not count on protection from pregnancy, if you do not have ovulation at this time. This does not exclude the possibility of unwanted pregnancy. And sex immediately before, or after, or even during menstruation, too, can not always guarantee full protection.
In addition, it is important not to have sex without a condom, if some time ago your partner already had ejaculation. Perhaps, in the canal of the penis still active sperm, which will be enough to get pregnant.
Anal sex without a condom
As for anal sex without a condom, then the risk of infection is greatest. Not just 100% probability, but also virtually every second act ends in infection. This is official statistics, and it is inexorable. The fact is that the human colon is a real "paradise" for microorganisms and viruses. For a woman, it is especially dangerous after anal sex to be immediately vaginal. This is a direct opportunity to get a whole bunch of different infectious diseases.
By the way, if you nevertheless have gathered prudence and decided to use a condom for anal sex - it is very important to take into account one point. The condom must always be changed when changing the ways of copulation. That is, according to this scheme: anal - change - vaginal - change - oral, etc. So you will definitely avoid infection.
With a regular partner you can without a condom?
Most often, to the question: "Do you want to have sex without a condom?" People regardless of gender answer: "Well, if with a constant partner ..." Yes, trust, of course, a valuable thing. And if you are 100% confident in each other, then it's nothing to worry about in active sex without a condom. Well, if, of course, the issue of pregnancy between partners is resolved. Or the couple wants a child, or uses other methods of contraception. Well, the question of infectious diseases here may not be so acute. If partners are true to each other and do not have parallel connections "on the side".
Is there a difference?
Usually these are those who persistently insist on sex without a condom, believe that the difference is huge. For men, perhaps sex with a condom slightly dulls the sensitivity. Although, now there are very high-quality condoms, the most natural in terms of sensations. With the help of a condom you can now delay ejaculation or, conversely, accelerate it if the man has problems with it. You can enhance the sensations with condoms of a fancy shape or texture, you can even use flavored and "taste" condoms. The choice is huge. And if the product is of high quality, then you will not experience any special problems in terms of sensations. And during a particularly active sex, you generally will not be up to it.