How to meet the new year at home

How to celebrate the New Year, find out in the article on "How to Meet New Year at Home". You can wait for the battle of the bells, pre-adjusting a couple of salad basins, traditionally listen to the speech of the next president, open the champagne. Everything is predictable and time-tested.

Not tired? On the last day, how many things have to be done: and prepare a festive table, put yourself in order, and buy the missing gifts and products. The troubles lead us into an extremely nervous state. We should rejoice, en-no ... But this year everything should be different!

Soon all will not happen. As soon as we hear the phrase "New Year", it seems as though a button is pressing in our soul: it seems that the smell of a Christmas tree and tangerines will bring about a change for the better, and they will certainly happen overnight. You wake up on January 1, look around - and more money, and the apartment is new, and the man of dreams is near. It does not happen! Changes in life occur either unexpectedly (on a day not assigned in advance), or gradually. Do not forget this to avoid disappointment.

At the table are loving people! And the family gathered at the table. Everyone relaxed. And then ... Auntie remembered that she and her uncle had another crisis of relations. My mother-in-law released a sarcastic remark. In a firm and calm voice, say: "Today is our holiday. Let's leave all the unpleasant behind the door! "And put the conversation on another topic. And someone is no longer with us ... If in the past year you had grief and disappointment, if someone you lost, there's nothing to be done. It's normal to be sad about losses and troubles. Talk about this a little, remember a deceased relative or friend. Strangely enough, after such a conversation it will be easier to greet the most long-awaited holiday. Troubles and problems will not spoil the holiday. As for minor troubles and bigger issues, let's not focus on them in a magical night. But do not pretend that everything is fine. For 15-20 minutes before the New Year, ask everyone to part with past troubles. Give out sheets of paper, pens to each guest - let each write all the bad things that he would like to get rid of next year. And then ... Then burn these sheets, imagining how problems disappear along with the paper.

We will think up New Year's traditions. Do you have your own traditions in the family? No? Urgently need to come up! And the New Year is a wonderful occasion for this. What kind? Well, at least those that relate to the celebration. When the clock strikes midnight, invite each guest to find a note stuck to the bottom of the plate with predictions. Write them in advance as much as the guests are supposed to. All in turn can read what promises them next year.

Solo on New Year's Eve. Do you meet a holiday alone? In order not to become dejected and not to become depressed, I propose to take this:

Now we know how to meet the new year at home.