Shock and pain.
Often a girl can not stop, constantly changing guys, because she once experienced sexual abuse or even outrageous harassment. For anyone, such tragedies do not pass without a trace and leave an imprint on further relations with the guys. When the shock passes, the question arises: "Why did this happen to me?". Rarely does anyone agree that the fault lies entirely with the criminal.
The society, unfortunately, is inclined to see more often in this case in the victim than a victim, but a provocateur who pushed the culprit to mockery. After listening to "notations" on this topic, the girl subconsciously takes all the blame for what happened on her own and starts to think that normal relations are not worthy. Her further behavior is to wave herself and try to forget herself. Constantly changing partners, a girl can not respond to harassment because of fear of once again surviving violence.
Take note. It is necessary to fight, even if it seems that there is no strength to do so, you can not give up, even if they were mocked at you! Firstly, it is worthwhile to hang in the room, and most importantly - in consciousness, a poster with the inscription: "Life is not over!". Secondly, take off your guilt. Thirdly, in no case should you keep it in yourself, mockery of a girl is very difficult to survive. Of course, do not tell everyone about the accident.
But in the environment of each of us there must be a very close, trustworthy person to whom you can rely. In addition, we must necessarily find an opportunity to talk with a psychologist, since mockery of girls rarely passes without a trace.
The main slogan that needs to be guided is that there are more good people than bad people. Of course, do not be trustingly rushing to the neck of any guy on his way. But at the same time, do not push away that is sincerely ready to give you your feelings, not necessarily everyone will have to scoff at you. True, it's no use telling the guy about his tragedy right away. You can share your secret with a young man, only after feeling that this person should be trusted as to herself.