For example, a married couple who has lived for many years in a marriage and having adult children has simply exhausted herself in the relationship and the spouses have the idea that something needs to be changed. Most often in such cases, new hobbies appear, the rest depends on the person himself, or the couple breaks up, or they stay together. It is in this case that others look at it more loyally, although not to both spouses this situation is acceptable. The hardest part is for women. Since once again regulate his personal life they are more problematic. Although, if there are men in this situation, they may lose self-esteem, because, as you know, men usually experience a mid-life crisis, and if they do not have a decent companion, they can just be overly addicted to alcohol.
Now consider this problem from the other side: "On someone else's misfortune, you will not make happiness". A large number of women like men who have lived in life, why "grow" themselves, if you can "take" ready? And they prefer to live with a married man. Most often men, naturally already have their own family, that is, as they say, all good men are usually employed. It's no secret that at the beginning of married life couples experience certain financial difficulties, especially if they have planned children at an early age. And accordingly, in order to "make" a certain wealth goes much more time, well, nerves, of course! And it is during this period that the personality of a man develops, because any woman tries to bring up good qualities in him and make the so-called "ideal man", naturally for herself!
Young girls who are already chasing wealthy men will be much harder to re-educate and living with a married man is also not easy, by that time they already have their own character and habits that one can not always get along with. So how to be in such a situation, how can a girl live with a married man? After all, if you have already decided to upset your family, then where do you get the confidence that in your time the same will not happen to you? Although many people do not think about it and live by the principle: "He who does not take risks, he does not drink champagne." Although life can take an unexpected turn. Here, for example, a young couple who started dating at an early age. "Incidentally" they have a non-planned child, of course, in such cases, it often ends with a wedding, despite the fact that the couple is not ready for family life and common life. The result of this, of course, are treason. If a man begins to change, then women simply close their eyes, trying to save, the so-called "family" or what is left of it, as they perfectly understand that it is much harder for a child to start a new relationship.
And it is in such cases that everything remains as it is. In this case, the mistress will have to be content with everything except the most important thing: "stamp in the passport", and otherwise live with a married man will be tolerated. But not for everyone it matters. Since she does not set herself the goal to get married. It is enough for her that the man provides it financially, she does not even try to destroy the family, because for her it is only one step on the road to well-being, and then, if she wishes, she can marry someone he really loves, regardless of his prosperity. Nowadays it is quite common and draw conclusions, of course, you yourself!