Communication with kids

Absolutely all people need communication. And even the youngest children, being born, already feel the need for communication. It is a mistake to think that until the child has learned to speak intelligibly complex sentences, he does not want to communicate with adults and peers. Without constant and regular communication, he simply will not learn to speak. Therefore, children need to pay as much attention as possible from the first days of life and respond to all the "aga".

The kid should hear your speech in order to get used to it, learn to perceive individual sounds, and later words. How can he know that an apple is an apple, if not from you. Of course, he will not understand this in a month or even six, but the more often he hears the names of those or other objects, the more he will be ready to independently pronounce these words.
The kid needs to be taught to dialogue and active communication, to encourage him, even if illegible answers. The more he hears different intonations, sounds and words, the better his speech apparatus will be formed. So watch what and how you say to the baby.
Let him hear from you only positive words and intonations. Read the fairy tale baby from birth, sing children's songs, talk about the world in which he begins to live. Do not shout at the child and do not scold him. The kid is not able to understand what he is doing wrong and why he does not meet your expectations, in addition, young children do not know what exactly you want from them. Therefore, scolding your baby is just meaningless, you just traumatize it and push it away from yourself. Instead of fostering fear in a child, it is better to try to make his life as pleasant and happy as possible.

Do not lisp with the baby. The child should hear the correct speech, otherwise in the future he will repeat for you and distort words. And to retrain, as we know, is much more difficult than to teach. Therefore, to lay the future vocabulary of the child needs with all responsibility.

It is known that children well perceive children's rhymes, so do not hesitate to read them to him. Let him not yet understand the meaning, but he perfectly feels the emotions that you transmit to him during such communication. Do not be afraid to "spoil" the baby with you. It is noticed that children, whose parents spend a lot of time with them and actively participate in communication with them, do not feel painful affection in the future and do not cling to the skirt. They grow more self-confident and learn with interest in independence. Those children who have a lack of communication, on the contrary, find it difficult to go to the stage when it's time to play independently and spend some time without parents. This is especially noticeable at a time when the baby is brought to a kindergarten.

In order for your baby to develop faster, do not forget about tactile contact. Massage and development of the child's small motor skills directly depends on the development of his brain. Therefore, master the basics of massage and take it as a rule to do it at least once a day. Do not miss the opportunity to stroke the child when you swaddle it, spread your fingers, hold your hand over small hands and heels. Later, when the baby grows up a little, give him as many toys as possible in the form and texture. The more diverse they will be, the faster the baby will know a part of this world.

Now there are big disputes about whether electronic and mechanical devices can replace a child with communication. Strictly speaking, a child can perceive a voice coming from a television set, a radio receiver or from an interactive toy. But this communication unnecessary for him any meaning, since he does not see and does not understand the object that talks to him. TV for the baby is a complicated and incomprehensible thing. Parents are much more familiar with them, the child is happy to contact and learn more easily.

In order for your baby to develop fully, talk a lot and with pleasure, you need to make a lot of effort. But all these efforts will be justified when you see how the kid tries to answer your call or question, how he listens attentively to you and how his mood changes from communication. In addition, the habit of communicating with parents from an early age is a guarantee of trust in the future.