How quickly our children grow! The life road sooner or later will lead the kids to the kindergarten. However, some parents may not need such a need, because the grandmother looks after the baby, or the financial condition of the family can allow to invite a nanny.
But still many parents prefer to act traditionally and look for a kindergarten for their baby. In this regard, there are many questions. They are associated with concern for the well-being of their child. At what age is it better to give the child to a kindergarten? How long does the adaptive period last for a pre-school institution? These issues are recommended to be solved with experienced professionals, and not only on the family council.
According to pediatricians, the best age when you can give a child to a kindergarten is three years. But in any case, every child is first and foremost an individual. If the family is big, there are sisters and brothers, then there is no special need to visit the kindergarten. But in the case when the child is alone in the family, there is no room for doubts. The society of other children is a good ground for personal development. In this case, the child will be more independent, will be able to stand up for himself, become more sociable.
In addition, there are children who can not do without preschools. This category includes children with speech disorders, problem eyesight and hearing. In the kindergarten with such kids are engaged specialists with adapted to such questions methods. Parents can not master such methods.
Adaptive period for each baby can take place in different ways. Some may show aggression, whims, some refuse to eat and sleep. Some people are faced with such moments later. Children whose families have a calm and balanced relationship with their parents, are better and quicker get used to the kindergarten. A growing person should always say affectionate words, show parental love. A child needs to feel needed in this world and protected. If you decided to take a step to give the child to a kindergarten, then the home regime should be close to the regime in the kindergarten.
Often there may be questions about nutrition. Moms often pamper their children and prepare raznosoly, for this child is often difficult to get used to the food kindergarten. And when the child does not eat, parents sound an alarm. Dear mom, do not make violence. Children themselves ask for food when they get hungry. The main task is not to raise panic.
Psychologists in many issues agree with the opinion of pediatricians: before the age of three, the baby should be better with his mother, who will understand him better than others. It is very important that the emotions are positive, as they develop in the child from childhood. And only a caring mother can give daily care, warmth and love, multiplying positive emotions. In this case, the child can overcome any life difficulties.
Everything related to adaptation depends on the participation of the family, as well as the attention of specialists, which turns out to be a baby in this period. It also depends on how the parents themselves relate to the kindergarten. Naturally, parents are worried when they give their own child to other people's hands. Many times there have been cases when mothers can not leave a child in the garden without tears. And when the mother is crying, the baby is crying too. A small creature and is so worried that it remains with strangers, and here also the native little man sheds tears. Advice to mothers - get rid of irritation, hysteria and not get angry. Children are very good at capturing the way adults react to an event, because they are good observers. It is for this caregivers that parents' support in this matter is so necessary.
A small person is weakened by immunity, when the soul is not calm and the child is more prone to various diseases. For this, the best thing for your baby is your joyful look and smile. Assistance in this difficult period is one of the main tasks of parents.
Remember, going to kindergarten is one of the first big tests that your child must go through independently, and not just the new environment. Do not be shy, ask questions to pediatricians and kindergarten specialists, because together you can find the best solution. And by doing this, you will accelerate the moment when the child will rush to the kindergarten, and worries and worries will be left behind.