Like any part of our life, sex is reflected in the most mysterious and unexplored area of the psyche - in dreams. Erotic dreams can be directly related to our real desires, but more often in a dream things happen that we would never have thought of in the day. For the correct interpretation of sexual visions, we turned to psychologists. They also presented us their scientific "dream book": the interpretation of dreams is sex. This applies to all ...
Everyone sees erotic dreams. Usually they appear closer to the morning and are not necessarily overly frank. A woman can experience arousal in a dream even when she simply talks to her friend, admires her own reflection or ... gives birth to a child. But sometimes, on the contrary, in dreams we make such that in the morning we wake up not ourselves. Do not be scared: the content of dreams does not need to be interpreted literally.
Every dream is a purely individual thing and is based on your personal desires, experiences, experiences and fears. And do not always run and flip through the dream book - he will not give an answer. Nevertheless, psychologists managed to identify common scenarios of erotic dreams.
Greetings from the past
Does it happen that in a dream you accidentally meet your ex-lover and in the next "shot" you find yourself in bed with him? Is it really that you still can not forget it? "One-time sexual dreams involving a former partner should not be taken seriously. Most likely, these are just pleasant memories: your subconscious mind "slips" to you an attractive sexual object from the past. But if the dream becomes obtrusive, it is worth thinking about, - says psychotherapist Olga Levinskaya. " Perhaps, in this way, an unresolved problem tries to manifest itself, which you are uncomfortable with, for example, you are still angry because of past grievances or have not completed a common cause."
"Sex with a former lover can be a metaphor for your desires, which are associated with his image, " adds psychologist Vadim Piotrovsky. - For example, if you dream of a person with whom you have once had a resort romance, this may indicate a secret stress: you want to disconnect from the worries that oppress you, relax and plunge into a carefree euphoria. "
In the female hands
Having enjoyed a dream of intimacy with a woman, do not rush to attribute it to hidden lesbian inclinations. "Perhaps in life you do not have enough caring and affection, you feel lonely and lost, and it is in the image of the wife-bus that the attention, care and tenderness that you need are embodied, " Vadim Piotrovsky explains. - If you dream of sex with a friend, colleague or other familiar woman, think about how you treat her in life. Often, using erotic dreams involving people who we do not consider to be a sexual object in reality, our subconscious points to hidden envy or admiration. Sex, thus, symbolizes our desire to adopt those qualities of a partner that we do not have, for example, a sense of humor, the ability to behave in a society, purposefulness or efficiency. "
Night trouble
And what if in your erotic dream you see a person who does not just not cause you any sexual feelings, but, on the contrary, is frankly disgusting to you? "Here the same principle operates: even in an annoying colleague, an ugly classmate and a harmful neighbor on the porch, we sometimes subconsciously find traits that we want to adopt for ourselves. Even if this person disgusts you, at certain moments you may want to be in something similar to him, at least in the ability not to pay attention to the opinions of others, "continues the interpretation of the dreams of Vadim Piotrovsky.
"Such dreams often symbolize boredom: for example, an unpleasant colleague is a boring job, " explains psychotherapist Olga Levinskaya. - As a rule, the dreams themselves are dull and monotonous, the sex in them is monotonous, boring and irritating. In this case, this is a sure signal to the fact that it is time to change something in your life. "
Reach out to the star
Sex with a celebrity, perhaps, is the most common type of erotic dreams. His interpretation depends more on the context of the dream and your personal relationship to a famous person. "If your bedroom is hung with posters depicting your favorite star and you are even a little in love with it, such a dream is the immediate embodiment of your desires. It also says that in life you have not yet found your ideal man. "Starry" sleep may indicate some kind of infantilism: you have not yet developed your own attachments and are using ready-made collective images, "argues Vadim Piotrovsky. - If the hero of your dream does not cause you absolutely no emotions in life, for example, you know him as a famous statesman, it speaks about your desire to achieve something more in life. "
Sex with a Stranger
It's incredibly nice to see in a dream how a stranger caresses you. Such dreams are very rarely negative. "Sex with a stranger speaks of your developed imagination and a thirst for adventure, " says Olga Levinskaya. - With the help of such dreams you are disconnected from everyday worries and plunged into the exciting world of sensual pleasure, for which you then will not have to give an answer to anyone else. You do not have ready emotions, feelings and problems, which you could distract in the process, as you do not know your partner, and you are not afraid of the consequences of accidental closeness. However, many have come across another turn of the story, when you find yourself having sex with an unknown man in a public place, and hundreds of people see you. Anxiety is the main leitmotif of such dreams. It can be caused by unpleasantness in dealing with a real partner or fear of intimacy after suffering stress. "
OPINION EXPERT
Eugene Kulgavchuk, sexologist, psychotherapist, vice-president of the Russian Association of Sexologists.
This phenomenon, like erotic dreams - is one of the manifestations of man's sexuality. Knowingly at a reception with a sexologist in an outpatient card, such questions are taken out in a separate box. With prolonged abstinence, the number of erotic dreams increases. So with their help, our brain unobtrusively reminds us of such an important part of life as sex. However, erotic dreams rarely visit people with a weak sexual constitution, because their sexual potential is poorly expressed.
Erotic dreams are an analogue of erotic fantasies. Only, unlike the latter, they are more expressed in the unconscious. Dreams are simple and complex. In simple dreams there is only a desired plot - this is a clot of our unrealized desires. In complex dreams, the plot acquires a much greater variety, it is intertwined and sex, and psychology, and relationships.
Interpretation of complex erotic dreams is best left to the doctor a sexologist-psychotherapist. And it is necessary to take into account the psychological characteristics of a particular person, analyzing their content. After all, the same dreams for different people can have a completely different meaning. For example, the exciting scene of rape in a dream of a young girl can talk about a sense of guilt (born in childhood) for increasing sexual desire.
Meanwhile, it is not worth getting too involved in the interpretation of dreams. Healthy sexual manifestations need positive emotions, not self-interest. Without special evidence this will only spoil your mood for the rest of the day.
THE FAMOUS INTERPRETER OF DREAMS deciphers the symbols of erotic dreams in its own way. It is not necessary to demand absolutely exact from each dream book the interpretation of dreams - it is necessary to interpret sex in a dream strictly individually. But still, there are general values for some dreams.
SEXY - you are attracted to forbidden sex, risk and thrill.
THIRST - longing for sex and dissatisfaction.
ORANGE - temptation, pleasure. You tend to have sexual fantasies in relation to a stranger.
ARBUZ is an orgasm. If you dreamed about how you cut a watermelon, then in real life, the true pleasure of sex is not available to you. You have to pretend not to disappoint the partner.
BAZAR - promiscuous sex life.
BANAN - the man's beginning, phallus.
CHANGE - you want to change yourself or suspect your loved one of infidelity.
GORB is your physical handicap, which prevents you from perceiving yourself positively and being relaxed.
Kabluk - testify to your dissatisfaction with your own sexual role.
ICONA means that your relationship with a partner is sinful and wrong.
INVALID - you are tormented by an inferiority complex, and this prevents you from normally perceiving a relationship with the opposite sex.
HANDMAPES - you treat sex very uneasy. You are constantly experimenting, but in any way you can not find exactly what you like.
WINDOW - you often shut yourself off from your partner, become withdrawn in yourself, if something turned out differently than you wanted.