The virtual world has captured the minds of mankind. The Internet came to every house, and gradually began to acquire personal characteristics. Whether we want it or not, Internet telecommunications is a new and rapidly developing layer of social reality. And it's not at all surprising that networking became more intimate. You will not much surprise people with such a concept and phenomenon as virtual sex. What is virtual sex? Is this the fate of adolescents, is it perversion, or is it a new way of expressing feelings?
Let's try to open the curtain
From the point of view of the science of sexology, it is a surrogate replacement of relations by verbal expressions of actions and desires (in this case sexual relations are meant), often accompanied by masturbation. The technique of virtual sex is reduced to the verbal expression of activities and fantasies. When partners to each other in different forms express their emotions, desires and imagine this or that action. And as a result, it takes to orgasm and pleasure. If we simplify, then we can say that virtual sex is an improved masturbation.
Virtual sex is bad or good?
There is no unequivocal answer in medicine of Ipsychology. Therefore, consider some of the positive and negative aspects.
A little about the pros:
Virtual sex can be a "deputy" of the real, corporal, when corporal sex is impossible for some reason. For example, when partners are far apart, virtual intimate communication can be a good way to express affection to each other.
Virtual sex is a good field for experiments. That is, you can not resort to real practice, try out your fantasies, if you have them.
Training ground for the exchange of experience and "advanced training".
A platform for training fantasy. After all, without fantasy in virtual sex, you will not succeed. Some lovers of such sex argue that virtual sex is akin to writing a love story. In order for it to be a success, one must train a literary syllable. Well, really, try to describe the words not only the process, but also sensations and emotions. It is not easy.
Virtual sex can serve as a warm-up before real real sex.
Theoretical preparation before practice. It can serve as a tool for "dummies".
Therapeutic effect, when a person needs to overcome his natural shyness, before he enters the real world of sex.
"Wirth" can help you play in the roles that in real life you do not dare.
And of course, from virtual sex you will not become pregnant and you will not get sick. For many, this is the main argument, oddly enough. In addition, this sex is possible at any time.
A little about the cons:
Absence of reality. A person still needs real satisfaction.
Replacing virtual sex with real contacts. There is a danger to play to the point that real sex is just not interesting. The "Wirth" erased the boundaries of time, in addition, it is here meaningfully simpler. And often, having returned to reality and faced with "real problems" of living relations, a person, disappointed, returns to the world virtual.
The fact of treason, albeit virtual, is still equal. Even if you try to convince yourself that this is not so. (In case the virtual and real partner are different people)
A disadvantage is the hiddenness of virtual sex from the eyes. Partners do not see the real reactions of each other. One can be captured by the procedure: emotions, impressions - everything is on top, and the second is just knitting socks or watching a movie and just bored.
Danger of falling in love with a virtual partner. It often happens that young people are completely given to letters on the screen and emotionally are given to an unreal person.
Sexologists warn that a frequent hobby for virtual sex can lead to fetishism, when subconsciously develops a habit of impossibility of sexual satisfaction without a computer.
The untruthfulness of people entering into such relationships. In 99% of cases, there is a refining of a loved one, which has nothing to do with validity.
A little statistics
A little understanding of the pluses of imuns, it remains to add that virtual sex attracts a large number of users of networks. The survey showed that about 60% of respondents tried this kind of fun. At the same time, a pleasant feeling was received by 32% of them, more of them women. A disgust and negative reaction "Wirth" was caused by 22%, there is already a large part of the muzhchin. And faceless and uninteresting virtual sex was found by 40% of respondents.
Conclusion: If both partners accept such a form of intimate relationships, then there is nothing shameful about this. Intimate correspondence is another way of expressing feelings and desires. As for engineering, in the case of virtual sex, you will have to practice expressing your wishes and feelings and actions "right", in this case, sexually and excitement.